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The raping monsters among us
It is shocking to see the pathetic condition of young men in Haryana, who have no other form of recreation than to torture and oppress the already marginalised.
Kishwar
Desai
Will arrests change the psyche responsible for the horrific crimes against women?
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after 65 years, India has not grown up. It still does not show any respect towards women, and the three recent rape cases in Haryana make one wonder, once again, how secure are Indian women today?Whilst it is tough enough to be a woman in modern India, it is probably the worst thing in the world to be a Dalit woman in a village, living far too close for comfort to the upper castes. The problem gets exacerbated in a tradition-bound, patriarchal state like Haryana, where they are frequently abandoned by the police and politicians. Indeed, even the men in their family feel threatened. Despite the special laws which have been created for the protection of the Dalits, nothing seems to deter the misguided and cruel men who want to molest or rape these marginalised women. And even the spotlight of the media does not speed up the excruciatingly slow wheels of justice. Recently, in the first reported rape in which the traumatised young woman said nothing for 10 days, fearing reprisal — while MMS clips were doing the rounds in her village and elsewhere — makes one wonder on whose side the state government is. There is no greater proof of poor governance than the police taking ages to register a case, and conduct the investigation, even in a case like this where the evidence must have been easily available. This was after a rape which took place in a small community. Thanks to the MMS, the criminals would have been easily identifiable as well. Everyone must have known their identities and yet the sheer reluctance to track down the culprits till the father of the victim killed himself is shameful. But we have heard no apologies from anyone. And when within a few days a second case of a gang rape emerged in which a young child had witnessed her mother being brutally molested — there was no alacrity demonstrated by the police or the politicians. Neither was there a healing or soothing touch extended towards this distraught family. As always, the state of Haryana lived up to its reputation of being cruel and callous towards its women. This is the state where the gender ratio is appalling, and machismo rules. It is also where khap panchayats are free to pass all kinds of retrograde pronouncements. And yet, nothing ever changes, because the patriarchal stranglehold of the upper castes and the Jat community appears to be far too strong. One can only hope the next time the electorate will have better choices, but who can they turn to? What is even more astonishing is that the high-profile Dalit woman politician from a neighbouring state has made no extraordinary effort to champion the cause of the two Dalit victims. Former UP Chief Minister Mayawati might be a Dalit icon, but she has done little to push for gender justice. Why do Indian women politicians demonstrate an almost macho attitude towards women victims? Even the newly anointed Chief Minister for West Bengal, Mamata Banerjee, the darling of the “bhadralok”, was not very sympathetic towards a rape victim in Kolkata. Similarly, the Chief Minister of Delhi, Sheila Dikshit, had admitted sometime back that it was difficult to provide security for women at night, and suggested they stay at home after certain hours. Thus the implication is that unless you are surrounded by gun-toting security guards (as most women politicians are) there is no security for Indian women today, regardless of caste or class. Years ago, when Phoolan Devi was gang-raped — again a lower-caste woman oppressed by the upper castes — she decided to pick up the gun and take revenge. It was a short, brutal and difficult life, celebrated in cinema and literature, but one wonders whether anything has really changed in India since then. As long as we continue to live in a divisive society where human beings are judged and treated according to their caste, and where real social reform hasn’t taken place, rape will continue to be used as a weapon of oppression. States such as Haryana must introspect and bring about a social revolution, before violence becomes a mindless way of life. I am shocked at not only the treatment of the two victims by the state but also the pathetic condition of the young men from Haryana, who are so misguided and uneducated that they have no other form of recreation than to torture and oppress those who are already marginalised. Who is going to teach them values, or kindness? These sorry specimens seem to have learnt nothing good from their families or society. It is about time we woke up to
the monsters among us, and tried to change their horrific mindset.
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Vajpayee’s ultimate cold warrior
Mishra has been described as a ‘hybrid between Chanakya and Henry Kissinger’ — a man with a ‘steel stomach’, with the ability to strip through the rhetoric and focus on key issues.
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A file photo of Brajesh Mishra with then Prime Minister
AB Vajpayee. Tribune photo: Mukesh Aggarwal
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I spoke to Brajesh Mishra last month, he was as usual brusque and precise in his answers. He never suffered fools or foolish questions and could be intimidating to those unfamiliar with his manner. Despite his failing health, his memory remained razor sharp. I had checked with him whether during the 1999 Kargil War, Pakistan had conveyed a nuclear threat to deter India from launching a full-scale war. Mishra said India had no evidence that Pakistan would carry out a first strike but confirmed that India had kept its nuclear weapons in a state of readiness, just in case. He then disconnected the phone.Mishra, who died on Friday, just a day short of completing 84 years, was India’s first National Security Adviser and Principal Secretary to Prime Minister A.B. Vajpayee from 1998 to 2004. Just 50 feet of red carpet separated his room from that of Vajpayee in South Block and whenever the Prime Minister was there, Mishra was at hand. The degree of influence he wielded with Vajpayee and his closeness to him drew comparisons with the relationship the legendary PN Haksar had with Mrs Indira Gandhi during her first tenure as Prime Minister. A Jawaharlal Nehru University professor once described Mishra as a “hybrid between Chanakya and Henry Kissinger”. He was known as a man with a “steel stomach”, with the ability to strip through the rhetoric and focus on key issues. The immense power he wielded with the twin posts and his access to Vajpayee saw him face severe criticism. In an article I wrote for India Today in 2000 I had termed him as a ‘supercrat’ and talked of how increasingly he was looked upon as a “control freak” and “a lone ranger.” I also mentioned that Vajpayee’s Mr Troubleshooter, with his background as a former Indian Foreign Service officer, was out of depth in economic matters and it was beginning to tell on the efficacy of the Prime Minister on domestic policy issues. I met Mishra soon after the article was published. He was visibly upset. But all he did was to point his index finger to his forehead and wiggle it to indicate that he thought his critics were “pagal”. His supporters pointed out that the attack on Mishra’s style of functioning was part of a proxy battle to get at the Prime Minister. It was apparent that Vajpayee trusted him intrinsically and resisted all pressure to move him out or clip his wings. That sort of trust and respect was hard earned. Mishra’s finest hour was during the 1998 Pokharan tests, where he played a large part in convincing Vajpayee to go ahead with the explosions early in his tenure. The timing of the tests not only caught the world by surprise but also many of Vajpayee’s Cabinet colleagues. Mishra was part of the inner circle that knew when. So secret were the timings that Vajpayee briefed his Cabinet colleagues, including LK Advani, only a day before the tests. Mishra’s assessment to Vajpayee, that if India played its business and political cards well it would weather the international storm over the nuclear tests in six months, proved to largely correct. Mishra had predicted that Pakistan would go ahead with its own tests and end up facing serious economic consequences. That the US would clamp sanctions on India, but he was confident the Indian economy was resilient enough to withstand the sanctions. That Russia, though uncomfortable with the tests, would back India. But his advice to Vajpayee to target China in a letter that the Prime Minister wrote to then US President Bill Clinton soon after the tests proved to
be embarrassing when it was leaked. After the tests, Mishra continued to play a key role in the decision-making process. At the height of the Kargil conflict he met his US counterpart, Sandy Berger, and reportedly delivered a message from Vajpayee to Clinton. Mishra remained tight-lipped about what he really communicated, but it is believed that Vajpayee had indicated to Clinton that India was readying itself for a full-scale war with Pakistan if the US was unable to convince Pakistan to withdraw from the heights. I do have a personal story of Mishra that would demonstrate the clout that he wielded as Vajpayee’s Man Friday. I remember that when I had obtained exclusive pictures of the 1998 Pokharan tests, including that of key Indian atomic scientists and APJ Abdul Kalam disguised in army fatigues at the test site, it was Mishra who took the decision to allow me to publish them. As far as I know, he took it without consulting the Prime Minister — such was the confidence he enjoyed. I never did thank him. I am doing so now. raj@tribunemail.com |