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SINGLE AND LEFT ALONE
There does not seem to be a word or words in any major Indian language for the ‘single woman’. And while the number of single women is increasing 
by the day, a vast majority of them actually opting 
to remain single, there is neither authentic data nor enough details of the challenges faced by the 
women and society.
Vandana Shukla
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hen Anuradha Adhikari , a teacher at the prestigious Sanawar Public School, decided to sell her property in Panchkula (worth Rs 2 crore), she found her own lawyer, in whose custody her late mother had left the papers, had forged her signatures to sell it to two different parties. The property was registered in her name. Adhikari had to seek police protection for her life and property in 2006. The lawyer offered his justification to grab her property, “ What for does a single woman need Rs two crore worth of property?” He had two property dealers with political affiliation to support his views and actions. Showing great magnanimity, he offered her Rs 40 lakh and asked her to leave.

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DIGNITY DENIED






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THE Tribune interview

by Raj Chengappa, Editor-in-Chief
“Adarsh represented what went wrong in Mumbai. The guilty will not be spared.”
— Prithviraj Chavan, Maharashtra Chief Minister
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arely six months into the job, Prithviraj Dajisaheb Chavan, 64, the Maharashtra Chief Minister, is feeling the heat of his tough assignment. The former Union Minister of State was catapulted into state politics by the ruling Congress party when Ashok Chavan had to resign as Chief Minister in the wake of the Adarsh Housing Society scam. He took over a fractured polity and a state facing serious urban decay and rural discontent. The shadow of Maratha strongman Sharad Pawar looms large over any Chief Minister of the state with the Congress running a coalition government in the state with the support of the NCP. Chavan’s brief tenure too has not been an exception. He met Editor-in-Chief Raj Chengappa on Thursday for an in-depth interview at Varsha, his Mumbai residence. Excerpts:







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PERSPECTIVE

SINGLE AND LEFT ALONE
There does not seem to be a word or words in any major Indian language for the ‘single woman’. And while the number of single women is increasing by the day, a vast majority of them actually opting to remain single, there is neither authentic data nor enough details of the challenges faced by the women and society.
Vandana Shukla

When Anuradha Adhikari , a teacher at the prestigious Sanawar Public School, decided to sell her property in Panchkula (worth Rs 2 crore), she found her own lawyer, in whose custody her late mother had left the papers, had forged her signatures to sell it to two different parties. The property was registered in her name. Adhikari had to seek police protection for her life and property in 2006. The lawyer offered his justification to grab her property, “ What for does a single woman need Rs two crore worth of property?” He had two property dealers with political affiliation to support his views and actions. Showing great magnanimity, he offered her Rs 40 lakh and asked her to leave.

She left for Pune, where she bought a new flat to begin a new life. Two years later she committed suicide by consuming Bacardi with Baygon, an insecticide. The money she thought would empower her to buy her freedom had apparently made her even more vulnerable.

There is still no mechanism in our country to assess the growing number of single women. Hence, little or no thought is given to their security and, for all practical purposes, the single woman does not even exist on the government’s agenda. By a rough estimate though (based on the 2001 Census), compiled by NGOs supporting single women, 36 million such women brave a hostile male dominated system, which views them as social subversives, and a threat to the patriarchal family structure.

In more developed countries, research based studies on changing social trends guide and help governments in formulating policies and framing guidelines, in the absence of social science research in India, single women are left to fend for themselves, to fight it out against all odds, or to surrender to the combined forces of social bias at home, at the work place and remain at the receiving end of administrative and law enforcing agencies.

Single women had been part of ancient Indian society but they would generally be victims of circumstances rather than products of a choice. Widows and parityakta (abandoned or rejected by her man, with she of course having no say in the decision) had some kind of acceptability as long as they lived at the mercy of the family, and practised self-denial and obedience.

This status of single women has changed vastly in the last two decades, with an increasing number of single women opting to remain single by choice. A new lexicon befitting them is yet to be coined in Indian languages.

Unlike the West, there are few studies or surveys conducted on divorces, why they are on the rise and how couples sort out their differences. In sharp contrast, in the United States there is even data to indicate that 95% of the divorces are by mutual consent and are ‘uncontested’.

Gowher Rizvi, former director of the Ash Institute for Democratic Governance and Innovation, Harvard University, says, that the choices made by women are not against men, they are simply discovering a new space for themselves with economic independence, which allows them greater control over their lives. Many women choose to live with women, not because they are lesbians, but because they find a more sensitive partner in their own gender.

In the absence of any data base on divorce rate and other factors responsible for growing number of women opting to be single, either state- wise or national, basic denominators to social change remain elusive. Yet, the fact that more single women are joining the fray , lack of understanding for the phenomenon results in social rejection of a reality which puts all the blame on the women for being ‘bad examples’ and for destroying a workable social structure.

It also results in victimisation of women by agencies that are supposed to step in to protect their interest, because at the implementation level, it is men who have their biases blocking well meaning laws and guidelines.

Traditionally, single women, ie, Spinsters, have had no place in Indian society. Once again, there is no Hindi or even Sanskrit equivalent of the word ‘spinster’. Either you are a Kumari, which does not indicate maturity or middle age, like the word ‘spinster’ does, or, you are a Shrimati — blessed to have a man. The institution of marriage is the only means to respectability for women, irrespective of all other accomplishments. Its purpose is to further family ties, not to enhance happiness of the couple. Compatibility between spouses is not linked to finding a companion, a soul mate, whereas successful marriage is seen as the result of patient work, along with family support. Personal happiness has less cultural significance in our society.  

So, women who search for a new horizon, refuse to enter into matrimony or look for their own happiness, find no role models. Gloria Steinem, the American feminist, observed that when she attended Smith College in the 1950s, for the first time there she learned some history of late 19th century and early 20th century feminists. What she read, however, led her to conclude that “everything had been solved decades earlier by worthy, but boring, asexual suffragists about whom I knew very little, except that I didn’t want to be like them.”

The Indian woman, in search of a new identity, de-linked from tradition, too, finds no role model. Steinem — a single, childless woman, married for the first time at the age of 66. She found her own path, her own answers, and these answers were not necessarily feminist. Perhaps, Indian single women too require that space, to define a role for themselves, which does not fit into the traditional roles of being a wife or a mother, always overshadowed by a male presence.

Single women constitute a formidable social force, denial of their existence and problems leads to further complications in a society already disintegrating at various levels.

Then, there are paradoxes in our legal system; on the one hand the law ensures a single woman’s rights even after a break-up of a live-in relationship, but a woman going through long drawn and contested divorce, which is the case in most divorce cases in India, has no means to fend for her rights. Even though the court fixes a certain amount to be paid by the husband for maintenance, in majority of the cases, the implementation is challenged and the order defied.

Similarly, she is not even recognised as the head of a family even when she is the provider. A legally wedded widow is a single woman in the eyes of the law, with rights to inheritance and benefits of her late husband. Spinsters contest property battles in courts for decades, without legal protection, whatsoever. Panchayats continue to be headed and influenced by men and patriarchal biases; they still do not recognise single women as beneficiaries of government schemes. Job cards for widows are issued in the names of the nearest male relation. In urban areas, single women find it hard to have a roof over their head and renting a place becomes a nightmare.

However, in a quiet revolution, women—widowed, abandoned and hunted for being witches—from India’s smallest villages — in Punjab, Himachal Pradesh, Rajasthan, Jharkhand, Bihar, Karnataka and other states have come together, having overcome nightmares of being gang-raped, cheated, starved and violated in every which way possible. Their tales send a chill down the spine, making one wonder, if at all there is any rule of law to protect them and their interest.

Not relenting under pressure, they have formed small groups and organisations at local levels, which have merged in an umbrella organisation to form a pressure group. Ekal Nari Shakti Sangthan, Positive Women’s Network, Jagrit Bahuuddeshiya Mahila Sakh Sahkari Samiti, Ekal Nari Shakti Manch, Gujrat State Network of Positive People, Mahila Adhikar Sandarbh kendra Action Aid, Bhor Abhiyan etc, have merged to form the “National Forum for Single Women’s Rights” with a singular voice demanding justice. These organisations act as an effective platform, where rural and semi urban single women can have their voice heard and initiate a fight for justice. The same cannot be said for educated, empowered single urban women, who continue to fight a lonely battle.

URBAN VOICES
Education no guarantee for dignity

Mona Ambegaonkar
Mumbai based costume designer and actor

No single woman living alone and working in a Metro will agree that it’s easy and that they face no bias. Single women living and working alone are universally assumed to be of ‘loose’ character and ‘easy’ and therefore a prey and target of every lascivious jibe possible. It is hard to get rented premises because most landlords and specially landladies have major problems with having single women as tenants or paying-guests. They nag constantly about late working hours and male friends’ visits and I know of many instances when girls have been turned out on the road in the middle of the night. I do not look for approval or ‘permission’ to make my choices. Education does not necessarily arm one in the battle for claiming respect and dignity, it’s a completely different set of qualities like courage, persistence and above all self-worth. I believe I am not only unique but valuable and so constantly demand my due.

Leave me alone

Satinder Satti
Ludhiana based TV anchor, actor, poet and singer

God has created every individual differently. No two men are similar in temperament and character. But women are expected to be prototypes of their medieval ancestors. For a woman being single and successful is like a double whammy, her success adds to levels of unacceptability and envy. My parents taught me to have dreams and work hard to achieve them. So, I am not apologetic of my success. Secondly, creativity and art requires 100% commitment of time and energy. For a life of creativity you need your own space. I have my world of creative energy and joy and God is there to protect me. If someone wants to be a part of that world, he has to be different ! Till that happens, I enjoy work and company of my parents. I never feel I am single as thousands of people admire me and I have an adorable family for support. Being single makes it actually easier to handle some of the problems. What does become irritating is when every Tarsem, Devinder and Hardeep start asking you, “ When are you getting married ?”

Being better than the best

Madhuri Sanjeev
Mumbai based theatre and TV actor

Indian women are fed on the Cinderella syndrome...made to believe that once they meet their prince charming, they will live happily ever after. I was luckier than a lot. I was working as an actor even before my husband’s untimely death and I continue to work. The expenses are taken care of but it’s all work, work and work, both outside and inside home. I consider myself lucky that I have an apartment of my own, because many Indian women find themselves without a roof over their head if they lose their husband. While divorce is becoming common, Indian society looks harshly upon divorced women. Instead of being admired, women who have the courage to walk out of a bad marriage are actually looked down upon as the ones who could not make their marriage work. Unmarried single women also face hostility. It is not an easy thing to turn a deaf ear to gossip!

Not much has changed in the Indian society. And though there are more single women than ever before, sadly the society is still suspicious of them.

Alone but not lonely

Amita Sehgal
Mumbai based Executive Producer of Ad films

Things may have changed on the surface since I joined advertising 22 years ago, single and divorced. Men would chase you, knowing you were vulnerable and women would feel insecure in your presence, as though you were going to swallow their husbands. Landlords were suspicious, and, from the guard to the colleagues, everyone thought, you were available. For me, dignity was important, so I had to be ten times more competent to make a place for myself in an industry dominated by men. And I worked with tough guys like Prahlad Kakkad. Divorce was a big thing 22 years back, it was the first in my family. I felt guilty and responsible. I had to be tough and very very competent to be here. I am not apologetic of who I am, it’s not easy being single, but being ‘alone’ does not amount to loneliness. I get more space and time to internalise things. I am more focused and can afford to be chronically ‘politically incorrect’. I am being myself finally, take it or leave it.

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DIGNITY DENIED
Kanta Devi from Himachal Pradesh

When a semi literate Kanta Devi of Bilaspur district in HP sought legal help to save her life, her lawyer tricked her into signing papers withdrawing the case (498- A) against her in-laws who used to beat her and keep her hungry for days. She is going through a long haul of legal process that breaks her back; she has been making the rounds of various courts for the last eight years. Her husband always gives a slip to the court summons. She got married to a man in 2000, who would play music at the highest volume while beating her up to suppress her shrieks. He was jobless and demanded a dowry. Her mother-in-law supported her beatings. Even though the court decided a maintenance of Rs 250 per month for her, her husband paid it for four months and then disappeared. She lacks resources to fight this battle.

Kaushalya Devi from Jharkhand

They wanted her out. But she didn’t give in. She refused to vacate her two rooms at her in-laws’ house after her husband died in 2000. Before her tears could dry, she was raped by her brother-in-law and his son, in front of her two pre-teen children, to force her to leave the property. She ran out screaming but her mother-in-law locked her in a room, saying she had only herself to blame. At dawn, she managed to escape and fainted at a house where she worked as domestic help. The local Mahila Samiti later took her to the police station.

She was told by the Samiti to fight for her rights. She returned but her husband’s family didn’t accept it. Death threats followed. Her rapists filed an FIR accusing her of stealing. She now lives in her mud house but the court cases drag on.

Rampati from Uttar Pradesh

She is 35 but looks much older. Her miseries began, as usual, when her husband died and the brother-in-law usurped her right to the land. She began working on someone else’s field for sustenance. The seasonal work gets her barely enough to survive and feed her three children, which means, she cannot fight a legal battle for her land. Her brother-in-law influences panchayat and other authorities. Even the PDS shop owner threatens to take away her BPL card, knowing her weak social position. With great difficulty and after intervention of single women’s association she has been granted widow’s pension of Rs 300 per month, on which she feeds her 3 children and a blind mother in law.

Baby from Madhya Pradesh

She belongs to a community which puts its girls in their early teens into commercial sex work, even before they reach puberty. Girls carry the burden of earning for the family, hence the groom marrying them pays bride money as high as Rs 2 lakh. Which means, he too makes her work for longer hours to recover the paid money. Amidst such abusive life, she found a man of her choice and rebelled against the system. She left with him for Mumbai and found a life of respectability, though not of comfort. Unfortunately, her husband died, leaving four children with her. She was forced to return to her native place where she was pressurised by the community to return to the oldest profession. She is fighting an uphill battle to keep her three daughters away from such customs and help them lead a life of dignity and respect, ensuring them education.

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THE Tribune interview

by Raj Chengappa, Editor-in-Chief
“Adarsh represented what went wrong in Mumbai. The guilty will not be spared.”
— Prithviraj Chavan, Maharashtra Chief Minister

Barely six months into the job, Prithviraj Dajisaheb Chavan, 64, the Maharashtra Chief Minister, is feeling the heat of his tough assignment. The former Union Minister of State was catapulted into state politics by the ruling Congress party when Ashok Chavan had to resign as Chief Minister in the wake of the Adarsh Housing Society scam. He took over a fractured polity and a state facing serious urban decay and rural discontent. The shadow of Maratha strongman Sharad Pawar looms large over any Chief Minister of the state with the Congress running a coalition government in the state with the support of the NCP. Chavan’s brief tenure too has not been an exception. He met Editor-in-Chief Raj Chengappa on Thursday for an in-depth interview at Varsha, his Mumbai residence. Excerpts:

You became Chief Minister because of the outrage over the Adarsh Housing Society affair that resulted in the resignation of Ashok Chavan. What are you doing to book the guilty in Adarsh and stem corruption?

Adarsh represented what went wrong in Mumbai. The Union government has already ordered a CBI inquiry which is looking into the matter. The state government has set up a judicial commission to see whether the officials who handled the files, gave permissions that bent or broke the law. If in doing so, that particular officer benefited by getting an expensive or prime flat, then it will be tantamount to corruption — doing a particular favour for a pecuniary advantage. That aspect is being looked after by the judicial commission and we will take action against anyone found guilty — no one will be spared.

But apart from Adarsh-type scams, there are a whole lot of other land fiddles in the name of housing development that need to be stopped.

The present land allotment policy has made the system corrupt — bureaucrats, police officials and politicians all have been trying hard to make a fast buck. We are now stating that whenever you do something where land is given under public-private-partnership, say on developing government land where slums have come up, then there should be price discovery through a competitive mechanism. The second principle that I am insisting on is that the value that is locked in the land must come back to the state. So, if the builder wants to develop something, it is ok, you build and make a profit. But the state must also benefit by this commercial exploitation. I want to give a signal that there will be transparency. There will be bidding and the lowest bidder will be preferred and a fair share of the profits must come to the government.

Every Maharashtra Chief Minister is said to live under the shadow of the state’s strongman Sharad Pawar. How have you been contending with the Pawar factor?

Ajit, the Deputy Chief Minister, is a nephew of Sharad Pawar. He is supportive of financial prudence and is not interfering in the revenue generating departments. He is very focused on pushing the state forward. Of course, he has a party to run and I also have a party to run. There will always be party interests that need to be protected in an alliance. Both would like to grow their party respectively. So, there are occasions when there is tension but they get sorted out. We have to learn to work together because I have not worked with him earlier at all. Neither have I worked in a state earlier. It is a great learning experience for me and I have to learn fast.

It’s a little over six months that you have been Chief Minister. What are your priorities?

The state faces several challenges. It is the second largest state of India and second largest in population. It has the second highest per capita income after Haryana and it is the most industrialised state in the country contributing the highest revenue to the exchequer apart from the highest exports. In agriculture, in many sectors we are number one. The problem is that as per the latest census, almost 50 per cent of the population of the state lives in urban centres like Mumbai, Thane, Pune and Nagpur. There are huge challenges of urbanisation, affordable housing, migration, the load on civic amenities, transportation, schools, hospitals and clean drinking water. We cannot seem to stop migration from rural areas and from outside because the job opportunities are here.

How are you tackling these urban problems?

The engine of growth, which drives the state, is in our cities like Mumbai and Thane. We cannot allow Mumbai to die like Kolkata. It has to be nurtured and made to continually drive the growth engine. For Mumbai, there is a monorail being launched this year and we are also trying a major trans harbour link to connect the island city of Mumbai with the internal land of Maharashtra, a two-kilometre-long link. I am also pleading with Jairam Ramesh (Union Environment Minister) to permit coastal roads so that North-South transportation becomes easier. So, transportation is a major initiative.

What are you doing about the problems rural areas face in the state?

Our problem is that there is no uniform development of backward regions. There are very poor districts. There are also very large districts that possibly need bifurcation — like Thane district which has a population of 1.2 crore. The other thing is the farming community. Although the contribution of agriculture to the state income is reducing (it is 12 per cent now), almost 56 per cent people are still dependent on agriculture. Our agriculture growth rate is twice that of the national growth rate, which is good considering that only 18 per cent of the area under cultivation is irrigated as compared to Punjab or Haryana, where the figure is about 90 per cent. There is a huge challenge of dry land farming in the state. Unless the dry land farming yields more returns to the farmer, the state will remain partly underdeveloped. So I am going to focus on that.

But agricultural finance is in a mess with Maharashtra’s apex cooperative bank, controlled by the state’s politicians, especially Sharad Pawar’s NCP, facing bankruptcy forcing the RBI to recommend stern action.

The Maharashtra State Cooperative Bank had never got a banking license from the RBI. It was permitted to run like an apex cooperative bank, as the mother institution of all cooperative banks at the district level. Being a cooperative sector bank, it started financing sugar mills and spinning mills in the cooperative sector. But when there were ups and downs in the business of the sugar mills because of liberalisation, the bank had to suffer; even the state government which had given a bank guarantee for money lending to these sugar mills, etc. was impacted. As a result, the bank’s network was eroded and its financial position became very poor. Consequently, the RBI took a strong exception and advised us to dissolve the Board of the bank and asked the state government to take it over. So we did that last month.

The bank has bad loans totalling over Rs 800 crore. Who will repay it?

I will honour only those lendings in which the state had stood as a guarantor; and also try to recover maximum money by having the assets sold for which money was lent for. It is an uphill task.

There is also trouble brewing over setting up nuclear plants in Jaitapur with the people raising concerns about safety and inadequate compensation?

I went there and met people and explained to them our concerns about their safety. We also held meetings with nuclear scientists present there who assured the people that there were no chances of any cancer or fish-dying. Then the Japanese incident happened and fresh concerns were raised. I met the Prime Minister, who told me that we needed the nuclear power and said that all safety measures would be taken. Right now, we are preparing for an enhanced compensation package.

What is your policy towards compensation for land being taken over for public projects?

We must have stake in those people who lose their land; and there should not be a practice that we pay them a lump sum upfront and forget them thereafter. Instead, there should be some sort of annuity — like insurance, etc — which will enable the land loser to get regular monthly income. There should be some sort of partnership and share-holding in the end-use of the land so acquired so that he does not feel cheated when the price of the land acquired from him goes 100 times up after its development.

Are you modifying the state laws for this?

We are waiting for the Central Government’s signal because we cannot do it independently.

You seem to have run into flak from your party for praising Narendra Modi’s agricultural reforms recently?

I didn’t comment on Modi. The simple fact is that I was talking to a close audience of the agricultural scientists and universities where I made some comparisons between the two states. In case one quotes Gujarat’s growth rate while interacting with scientists, which is a fact the Planning Commission has also accepted, it is not praise for Modi, it is just a comparison to drive home the point. If I say I like the dhokla of Gujarat, it does not mean that there is praise for Modi.

Are you missing New Delhi?

Well, Delhi is more cerebral for policy-making, has more think-tanks and task forces. Here, I have to take totally executive decisions — like do this, stay this or stop that.

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