Parents shouldn’t put undue pressure on children for higher scores
Spare the Rod, Improve the Child” (Saturday Extra, April 30) by Shobita Shiv Shankar pertinently brings out the traumas heaped on the child at home, school or college. Various examples are quoted to bring out the treatment meted out to the children on trivial matters like not wearing proper uniform, talking or not doing homework. This brings out the barbarity of the teachers. At home, some parents practice psychological aggression while others deliver physical punishment.
In fact, teachers and parents follow the adage ‘might is right’. They vent their personal frustration on vulnerable children. Heads of schools and colleges are also to blame, for they put the fear of the devil to maintain discipline in the institution. The unmanageable number of children in schools contributes to this brutal repression by the teachers. To give a balanced upbringing to the children we should resort to love, kindness and learning. Parents put undue pressure for higher scores on their children in this competitive era and if they lag behind, they have to face the music at home as well as school. The need of the hour is not only academics, but also all-round development of the child to help him become a balanced personality. I close with this limerick: A small verse for all teachers Who aim to be good preachers Emphasise the joy and bliss of learning Without tension and worrying about earning PRABHJOT KAUR, Jalandhar
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