A woman of
classes and masses
By Reeta Sharma
I HAD met Champa Mangat Rai in 1976
at Usha Lalls home in Sector 11, Chandigarh, over
dinner. She had looked stunning with a string of pearls
round her beautiful long neck, wearing a brightly printed
pink chiffon saree, adorned with a meticulously made
traditional Indian style Joora. That evening she
had initiated a heated discussion on the Emergency and
its fallout. She was anguished at people being jailed
"in a blatant dictatorial manner". "How
could she (Indira Gandhi) be so undemocratic in a
democratic country like our?" was the question
Champa was repeating, shaking her head in desperation.
In particular she was
angry over the arrest of Pramila Lewis(Usha Lalls
daughter). Champa was fully aware of Pramilas
social work among the labourers of Mehrauli farms. And
that Indira Gandhi had a personal grudge against Pramila
for having exposed her for not paying full wages to
labourers in her own farm. Questions were raised in
Parliament in this regard, embarrassing Indira Gandhi to
no end. "Clearly, she has avenged her humiliation by
jailing Kinna (Pramila Lewis). She is desperate to stamp
out dissent and all opposition. But how can a democracy
survive without Opposition?" It was always the
larger issue on a wider perspective that held Champa
Mangat Rais attention. That is what she was, an
intellectually groomed woman who could view issues which
affected the masses and which had wider repercussions.
Gradually, over the years,
sitting through intense discussions with her, I grew to
admire her. She was a very deep, serious, conscientious
person full of compassion. I was outside her class of
affluent people who had studied in the best of schools,
colleges and universities. Her world of chiffon,
georgettes, and pearls was in total contrast to that of
mine with a very, very limited set of salwar-kameez
suits and sarees mostly gifted by friends and relatives
and with nothing at all by way of jewellery. But Champa
Mangat Rai was absolutely oblivious of my unmatched class
and social status. With an open and warm heart she made
me part of her life.
Champa was almost always
the first one to arrive for any of the functions
organised by Majlis. She never missed my plays
either. She was the only viewer who always established a
rapport with the artists and me in particular, sitting
always in the first row (which was as good as reserved
for her). It was like having your mother in front of you
while performing on the stage and coping with the
stresses and strains of each performance. Over a period,
she also became my severest, yet objective, critic.
Though she certainly
belonged to an elite class, she respected the people of
all classes. Beyond the pretensions of
pseudo-intellectuals, she could understand the relevance
of amateur theatre. She remains an exception in inspiring
the likes of me by saying, "Plays by amateurs are
closer to the grass-roots of Indian problems and
understanding. Masses can associate themselves with such
plays far more easily than with the complicated and
symbolistic elitist theatre. This is not to say that the
highly professional theatre has no relevance. Both are
required to grow at two different levels and with equal
importance".
Legends like Champa Mangat
Rai are few. She was a strange example of a person who
surrounded herself with the richie-rich class and the
poorest of the poor as well. Whether it was a maid who
had been deserted by her alcoholic husband, or a poor old
servant of one of her friends, or the four children of
another sweeper or the sick mother of her former maid, or
the entire family of her age-old cook, or the chief
secretaries, secretaries, theatre personalities,
writers... all had a warm home in hers. "Concrete
and logical help" was her motto in dealing with the
needy. Poor children must be educated. Books must be
bought for them. Battered women must be provided shelter
and rehabilitation, and in this regard she kept track of
every NGO she could approach. The nourishment of kids and
that of any pregnant poor woman was very much her
concern, if it came to her notice.
But there was subtle
quietness about every gesture of hers. You never heard
her talk about what she was doing for others. I learnt
about many of her gestures of compassion and
consideration from the horses mouth by chance.
Whenever I tried to broach on the theme to appreciate
her, Champa would dismiss it with a typical wave of her
hand and deliberately change the topic or get into a
discussion touching on wider issues.
For years I had been
persuading her to allow me to write a profile on her. But
everytime she chided me saying: "You will be
blatantly partial. Anyway what is there to write about
me? I was lucky enough to have gone to the best of
schools, colleges. I got a job without any hassle. I
never faced any financial problems. I never had to face
any crisis. So what is there that I can share with your
readers? Forget it. Why dont you write about
Mrs..." and she would reel of suggesting
others names.
I came to know and grow
with Champa by the time she had become a private person.
She never talked about "him". Whatever she
mentioned was unfailingly dignified and with respect for
that human being. She never encouraged even her closest
friends to criticise him in any way. But all of us knew
that she could never grow out of him.Yet how amazing that
she never allowed bitterness to come in the way she felt
about "him".
There was a festive
occasion in my home on March 7 and Champa had promised to
join. By her previous record, one could set ones
watch by the announced time of her arrival. But that day
she was late. Late enough never to come. A couple of
times I looked around for her shinning silver-haired head
but it was nowhere to be seen. I felt strange. This was
the only time she had not kept her promise with me. The
next days papers revealed the secret of her
betrayal. She had on March 7 gone into sleep, for ever
and in peace cancelling all her engagements in this
world.
At the cemetery, when I
passed by her beautifully decorated coffin, decked with
flowers, I saw Champa lying peacefully behind a veil of
white net. I could see Dr Mamgain hovering around
supervising the arrangements. Whenever, Champa fell sick,
Dr Mamgain was always around to attend on her. I wondered
what is it that she was monitoring today, especially when
Champa had freed herself from her chosen vacation by
going to sleep forever.
Then I saw Dr Mamgain lift
flowers from near Champas grave. She turned away
swiftly with a bundle of flowers in her hand. I followed
her. She went past dozens of graves to finally reach one
and placed the flowers on it and closed her eyes for a
prayer. After she finished she turned around, and on
finding me said: "This is Champas mother. And
you know she really adored her mom".
Ever since I entered the
cemetery, my eyes were searching for Inder, the
pleasantly plumpish sardarni and the next-door neighbour
of Champa. I had often wondered about her for she was
almost always at Champas side. Her arrival was
always followed by either her own baked cakes, or some
pickles, or baked vegetables, or saag or, a bunch of
flowers. I knew from my observation and intuition that
she had become an inseparable part of Champas life.
Though she was much younger to Champa, she fussed over
her like a caring mother.
I could not find Inder
anywhere. At last when the priest said, "Lets
bid final farewell to sister Champa Mangat Rai",...
taking a deep breath, I lifted some soil and at once I
saw a woman, oblivious of anybodys presence,
silently shedding tears into the grave. It was Inder.
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