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Planning a happy life
EVERYBODY cannot hope to become
rich. And fortunately, to lead a happy life one need not
be a rich man. In this connection, one may simply ask one
question and reply it oneself. Are all rich men happy? Or
all poor men unhappy? The answer will certainly be
no.
Just as physical health
is maintained by following certain laws of nature without
incurring any expense, similarly, happiness can also be
maintained by following certain laws of nature without
any cost. One has, however, to discipline oneself very
hard in both cases.
To my mind, every person
is required to plan his life for 100 years which should
be divided into five years with a plan breaking them
further into yearly targets. Knowing full well what one
is required to do or achieve in one year, it becomes easy
to understand what one has to do or achieve in a single
day to lead a successful, healthy, happy and prosperous
life.
The following are 12
resolutions which should be included in everyones
daily schedule to be followed in order to live each day
happily.
This day I shall take
care of today only and let the future take care of
itself. I shall take life as it comes and face its
realities with courage and conviction. I shall take good
care of my health being conscious that health and
happiness go hand in hand. I shall not compare myself
with any person whom I consider richer and happier than
myself. I shall keep in mind that man of character leads
a far happier life than a man of wealth. And I shall
appreciate the good points of others, for this is the
best investment in happiness.
This day, I shall do my
work with love and do one thing at a time, with important
things first, in the order of their priority. I shall
adopt fair means to achieve my fair ends. I shall try to
bring a smile of joy to the face of someone. I shall take
some effective steps for self-improvement which will lead
to improvement of my circumstances and environments. I
shall not do anything against the dictates of my
conscience, and while not under-estimating the importance
of money in life, I shall not forget that money is not
everything. My self-respect is dearer to me than money!
To put these 12
resolutions into practice is much easier said than done.
But even the journey of a thousand miles starts with one
step, the first one. And for any journey into the future,
the starting place is only today.
A.K. SURI
Chandigarh
Height
of brutality
In his letter
Horrendous act (June 23) Mr Moazziz
Ali Beg has referred to the barbaric acts of
ancient Assyrians. Perhaps he is not aware of
such acts of some despotic rulers of India.
Ala-ud-din
Khilji shed more innocent blood,
writes Barni, than ever Pharaoh was guilty
of. The Mongols, who had settled near Delhi
and embraced Islam, rebelled against him. As a
result of his terrible vengeance wreaked upon
them, between 20,000 and 30,000 new
Muslims were ruthlessly massacred in one
single day.
Jahangir
directed 700 men, who sided with Prince Khusrau,
to be impaled alive on stakes.
Once Mohammad
Tughlaq, during a hunting expedition, arrived in
the district of Bairam. He told his officers that
he had come to hunt men, not beasts. Thousands of
innocent people were mercilessly slaughtered and
their heads taken to Delhi and hung on the city
walls.
The Persian
invader, Nadir Shah, ordered a general massacre
of the inhabitants of Delhi. According to S.M.
Latif, between 1,20,000 and 1,50,000 people were
butchered in seven hours.
However, things
have changed after the Geneva convention. Yet the
barbaric act of torture and mutilation of our six
soldiers in Pakistan custody shows that this
country has no respect for the Geneva accord.
According to a
Hadith, once the Prophet of Islam saw a donkey
with branded face. He called its owner and told
him that God did not like branding of animals.
But in Pakistan even human beings have been
savagely treated.
On the other
hand, instead of indulging in a tit-for-tat
reaction, the Indian Army has, living up to its
glorious tradition, given a decent burial to the
Pakistani dead soldiers in the Dras sector.
BHAGWAN
SINGH
Qadian
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