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Khaps subscribe to Indian philosophy
I endorse D R Chaudhry’s views, expressed in his letter ‘Hooda's claims on khaps not correct’ (October 9) to the extent that there is no scope for violence in dealing with deviant social conduct in the matter of marital affairs. But, simultaneously, I beg to differ strongly with his thrust of the argument to the effect that khaps or people of India for that matter, have to "earn social relevance" as dictated by the age of globalisation, as he puts it. First and foremost, globalisation is finance centric (trade and profit driven) and not people or culture centric, notwithstanding the cultural spillover effects. Fundamentally, East is East and West is West and the twin will never meet. Even Pope Francis has expressed serious concerns over the increasing deprivation of the marginalised sections of the world population due to the ill-effects of globalisation. The sacred institution of marriage is crumbling in the West marked by over 60 per cent divorce rate, homosexual marriages, live-in relationships and so on. The live-in relationship, the fad in the West, has been legalised by the Supreme Court decision but such "marital" relationships are not socially acceptable at all by Indian people. Are these people (dubbed traditionalists) not globalised since they stick distinctly and steadfastly to their time-tested traditions and customs, the soul of Indian culture. Khaps subscribe to this Indian philosophy.
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Moreover, the consanguineous marriages are banned in the West and people in India, particularly in the North, hold that same-gotra marriages fall within the parameters of consanguineous marriages and hence they are opposed to such alliances. The writer has skirted the vexed issue of same-gotra marriages, disapproved 100 per cent by both urban and rural people. Khaps' role is hyped by the media and the so-called modernists. Khaps do not mould the psyche of the people when they themselves are deeply rooted in their traditions and customs handed down to them over the centuries. DR PREM SINGH
DAHIYA, Rohtak
Soldiers betrayed
It is a sad state of affairs that the government is deliberately delaying the implementation of the Supreme Court's verdict wherein the arrears arising out of the rectified anomaly of the Sixth Pay Commission were required to be paid with effect from January 1, 2006. Intriguingly, the government has termed it as OROP which is not true as service term benefits have not been included in it. The veterans feel betrayed as the MoD is virtually going against its own soldiers by compulsively appealing against the verdicts handed out by various courts in favour of the ex-servicemen. Such attitude of the government is highly deplorable. COL KULDIP SINGH GREWAL (RETD), Patiala
Blind faith
Most Indians are religious people, who believe in making prayers and seeking blessings for success and prosperity in life and to get rid of their sufferings, diseases, wants, etc. For them, worship is more important than work and blind faith in someone, with a larger-than-life image, more satisfying and convenient than reasoning. That accounts for the present mushrooming of self-styled godmen in our country with large followings. Apart from misutilising and misdirecting huge human resources of the nation by holding frequent and large congregations, they have amassed huge and unaccounted wealth, built armies of followers and influential connects to shield their dubious and immoral activities. H L SHARMA, Amritsar
Govt banks
If you give a service tax challan you will not get an acknowledgement immediately but will be asked to come later to collect the challan copy. If you insist on getting the acknowledgement copy, then you are asked numerous questions by the dealing staff. Asking questions, it seems, is a novel way adopted by bank branches for not giving acknowledgements and not to own any responsibility for any technical problem at the branch, non-generation of string as no proof exists having tendered a challan. Even for a cheque tender a duly signed acknowledgement is not given but just the branch rubber stamp on the counterfoil. S C DHALL, Zirakpur
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