It was during the final edit of my book last December that the despicable rape of a promising girl took place in a bus in Delhi. The time line of my book eerily enough was December — and so as the gang rape case unfolded, I began to insert a few details about the case into my narrative.
The main protagonist of my novel, Simran Singh, is investigating the case of a girl who has been allegedly raped and has subsequently disappeared in Goa, when she hears about this terrible incident. As she worries about the victim and her suffering, she is further motivated to find the missing girl. I did not have to change a single word of the book's structure to insert the gang rape details. By putting a few lines about Nirbhaya in my book, I wanted to remember her struggle to better herself and her battle for her life and respect.
There are also far too many similarities between her story and the other victims in their quest for justice: the helplessness of the victim's family, the dread of the media circus, an unsympathetic police force. In Nirbhaya's case hopefully the fast track courts will move fast, but normally the judiciary moves at a snail's pace.
During the launch of my book in Delhi, we had a vigorous discussion about the anti-rape legislation and whether it would bring a real change in the mindset. Among the discussants was Union Law Minister Ashwini Kumar, who confirmed his intent and hope that the Bill would be a deterrent. There were other issues, including my own fear that young children are getting sexualised, or being used by others as sex objects, at a younger and younger age.
The very next day we had another horrible incident of a five-year-old in Delhi being brutally assaulted by two drunken men and once again the conscience of the nation was aroused — becoming aware that the dark reality still gnaws at us — a monster devouring the lives of so many individuals. It also raises the question whether we as a society know how to give the required care and love to these rape survivors?
While we condemn this ghastly form of ‘entertainment’ that some men seem to indulge in, let us remember that gang rape is not new in our society. It has been used for years as a weapon by the upper castes to suppress the lower castes — by violently and publicly assaulting their women. It has also been used during communal violence right from the days of the Partition of each warring community to deliberately hurt the wombs and reproductive organs of women to ensure they would not give birth. And now it seems to have become a means for sexually frustrated men who are marginalised (certainly if they are migrants in urban India) and suffering from an alienation that makes them dangerous because they only have an identity when they are together indulging in a violent act. They feel powerless and impotent alone, but in a group they can establish their supremacy over their prey.
In these columns I have said before that there is an urgent need to understand this behaviour and we should examine families which are becoming increasingly dysfunctional, with the systematic elimination of women from our society, both physically as well as figuratively. The importance of the mother, sister, daughter, wife, girlfriend, lover, worker — all roles that a woman plays within the family and outside, have been attacked by an increasingly patriarchal society. All these relationships need to be rebuilt once more, most particularly within the family. But no changes in policy can take place in a vacuum and there is a genuine lack of information about the real status of women in this country.
There is now a desperate need for an in depth study on it and the findings should be circulated widely. The National Commission for Women needs to be replaced by a more serious, non-partisan body run by both women and men as these matters need to become non-political and taken much more seriously than as shouting matches in television studios. Women can no longer be assured by flaky parliamentarians who have a different rule for 'rapists', but follow a male chauvinist agenda in their real lives.
An overhaul of the system is called for, and for that we need a more intellectual and reasoned space. We cannot be expected to take to the streets every time. We need a second women's liberation movement desperately in the India today. Women need to unite to fight back this menace of violence in every aspect of their lives.
The writer’s new novel The Sea of Innocence
has just been published