Law of dual cause
UNHAPPINESS is alien to a mans
nature, and it depends for its existence to some extent
upon certain external conditions but mainly upon the
conditions of the mind. Something goes wrong and a man
becomes unhappy. There are two causes that create that
undesirable state of his mind. Let us call them
action and reaction. Action is
the external cause an event and reaction to
it is the internal cause, which may be called a negative
behavioural response to an event. This is known as law of
dual cause that is responsible for a mans
unhappiness.
The external cause in
itself does not make a man unhappy unless it affects the
internal attitude or, in other words, generates a
negative reaction in him. Thus unhappiness depends more
upon the inner attitude towards an external condition
than on the external condition itself. If it is positive,
it brings happiness to him but if it is negative it
causes unhappiness.
It is possible for a man
to stop the joint action of the two causes that makes him
unhappy. While he has a choice in actions which he
himself performs, he has unlimited field in controlling
the negative reactions to the actions of others, over
which he has, obviously, no direct control. A control
within is not only within his power but is also the
easier method of attaining than a control without.
As an illustration, let us
suppose that someone speaks harsh words to us without any
provocation. There are two possible reactions to it. One
is that we may treat the abuse as an insult and retaliate
it giving abuse for abuse or even coming to blows.
Alternatively, we may refuse to accept the abuse by
taking no notice of it. We exactly behave in a similar
way when abused by an insane person. The difference
between the two types of attitude is self-evident and
needs no elaboration.
The million dollar
question is: should we allow ourselves to be slaves to
others who can make us unhappy at their will by their
pinpricks, or should we exercise self-control and remain
always calm and peaceful, come what may? A charioteer is
one who controls an unruly horse and not the one who
merely holds the reins and lets the horse go wither it
would.
A. K. SURI
Chandigarh
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Tired,
yet enthusiastic
This refers to Kuldip
Nayars article, Vajpayee regimes 200
days (Sept 25). It appears as of Mr Atal Behari
Vajpayee is a little tired and weary of conferences and
doubtful of their utility. But even though his enthusiasm
for conferences may have waned, the feelings of public
betterment is as high as ever. He is worried about the
growing prices and the problems faced by the common man
that of an insensitive bureaucracy, growing corruption
and the miscellaneous other affairs of public concern.
India is tied down to the
area where we reach and get influenced by material things
guns and goods. Foreign policy also depends on
these two things. As these goods are limited, so are
policies. These limited policies are defensive and the
defensive policies are losing policies. Mr Vajpayee has
to make use of his experience and take India towards a
fully self-reliant and economically well built country. I
would like to quote a few words of John Wesley for Mr
Atal Behari Vajpayee:
Do all good you can,
In all ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as you can.
VIVEK SINH MAR
GIRAN
Kurukshetra
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Implications
of Afghan conflict
Mr Inder Malhotra's
article "Afghanistan's mounting peril unheard
alarm bells" (The Tribune, September 23) meets a
deeply felt need understanding the developments in
that hapless country occurring for quite some time.
Firstly, it is not easy to
get over the gnawing suspicion whether the US missile
attacks, widely resented in international fora, were
intended to blunt Osama bin Laden's terrorist activity.
Frankly speaking, one is reminded of the Gulf of Tonkin
episode of the late sixties staged to justify the
escalation of the US involvement and intensified bombing
in Vietnam. This appears to be palpably the case and, as
observed by Mr Malhotra, "the thundering silence of
the USA on the dangers posed by the Taliban and its
promoter and patron, Pakistan...", particularly in
the context of its long quest and abiding itch to take
control of oil and natural gas-rich Central Asia, is a
precursor of the events to come.
Secondly, at another
level, the compulsive involvement of Shia Iran in the
developments in Afghanistan following the calculated
massacre of its diplomatic personnel in Mazar-i-Sharif
seems to have been taken into account by the wily policy
planners in Washington to carry forward their strategy of
hunting with the hound and running with the hare
perfected in the Iran-Iraq war and earlier in the
Sino-Indian context.
Apart from the ominous
portents of the emerging confrontation in Afghanistan for
Russia and other members of the CIS, the developing
situation has some lessons for India. It was under Mr
Vajpayee's stewardship of the Ministry of External
Affairs that Pakistan was allowed to become a
full-fledged member of the nonaligned movement. Will the
new dispensation show the necessary grit and firmness not
to let any undue advantages go to Pakistan and the
Taliban, under the benign influence of the USA or
otherwise, in the name of helping the new adversaries
take more sober attitude? Any faux pas in the sphere of
the CTBT or any other area could prove costly for India.
J. N. NARANG
Chandigarh
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