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Sunday
, August 25, 2002
Books

Learning to live positively
M. L. Sharma

21 Laws of Positive Living
by Rakesh K. Mittal. Sterling Publishers Pvt. Ltd, New Delhi. Pages IX+129. Rs 90.

21 Laws of Positive LivingTHE book under review is Mittal’s fourth book on the most useful subject of positive living, wherein he has dealt extensively with all the significant laws in the manner Dr Norman Vincent Peale has touched on the same theme with a masterly stroke. Despite this, Mittal has his own unique way of presenting these laws in a delightful manner. The book has covered the whole subject in 2 I chapters, with each chapter dealing with one positive law of living. These laws, according to the author, include law of goodness, law of faith, law of gratitude, law of forgiveness, law of health, law of wisdom, law of courage, law of change, law of acceptance, law of excellence, law of karma and law of patience. What Dr Peale, who is internationally famous author, calls power of positive thinking is termed as the law of positive living by the author.

By positive living, he implies living for a purpose, for growth and for further evolution. "A positive thinker," he contends, "sees no conflict with nature, which is a manifestation of the Supreme Being, rather he finds
it conducive for his further growth. He considers the word positive as a symbol of growth in a larger sense. It is a kind of yoga for him, which means communication with Nature." One who lives a life of positive thinking has the capacity to face all situations with courage and fortitude.

 


In the second chapter, he deals with the law of goodness. He impresses upon the readers that certain cardinal principles common to all are essential for guiding human conduct. Goodness, he says, is an individual as well as a social need for acquiring happiness. Goodness is strength, not a weakness, he maintains. To be good implies to help someone without an ulterior motive and goodness leads to positive living just as to forgive, to share, show compassion, gratitude, etc.

The next step he suggests is the attainment of faith in God because it solves all our problems. Faith does not imply lack of effort, rather doing our best and when our activities are carried out with such a belief, excellence becomes a way of life, giving us greater joy in return. The law of affluence gives a feeling of empowerment and completeness.

In the chapter dealing with purity, he observes purity is something absolute, while honesty is a state of mind related to our belief systems and our circumstances. A thief and a prostitute, he argues are far from being pure but they could be honest in their dealings. To elucidate his point, he takes up a peculiar situation in which two individuals are placed. One is honest about his deviations, while the other is dishonest, and he conceals his bad traits and claims himself to be an honest person. The first one, he says, is honestly dishonest, while the other is dishonestly dishonest. Here is a remarkable piece of advice: "Let us, therefore, try at least to become honest to our dishonesty and lighten ourselves. It will help greatly in living a positive life. There should be no effort to justify our deviation and the admission should be honest. Also there should be no feeling of guilt. Once such an attitude is developed, there are good chances of coming to the absolutely right path, as the life would unfold itself."

The other step is showing compassion. It means empathy for other people’s problems. It is the feeling of divine interdependence. Compassion, according to the author, enriches every interaction of life making life noble. In another chapter, he tells us that one need not compare oneself with another and attribute any hierarchy to oneself. Each one is a unique creation of God. Regarding the law of excellence, he underscores the fact that excellence has its own logic and once we have made it our goal, Nature helps us to achieve it, making the whole process self-perpetuating. About the law of wisdom, he says, once wisdom dawns in full measure we are able to look at the deeper meaning of life and endeavour to find its true purpose. The law of karma ensures the reward of good actions in happiness and peace.

He counsels us to understand fully the law of change, which he deems is the only permanent thing. Quoting a proverb, "The glory is in the race run and not in the race won," he remarks that success and failure are transitory and we should not feel disheartened in the face of failures. Again, he warns us that by the side of good acts like humility, compassion, forgiveness, there may be a little ego, giving us a feeling of superiority. If this egoism is not curbed it may lead to arrogance and pride. There is an urgent need to develop a wide vision and expand our minds beyond the narrow walls. We should have a better look at our relationships with others in all fields and rebuild them with an attitude of love, purity and detachment. With this attitude our friends and well-wishers start multiplying. We become free from narrow circle of those who exploit us or whom we exploit. We discover a new meaning in our relationship and we find that the whole humanity has become one family.

The author claims that he has made practical application of all these 21 laws of positive living in his own life. He feels that if we start living our lives with the new energy gathered from these laws, we can change the face of humanity. This neatly printed book with the words of inspiration to men and women makes a very interesting reading. It can be useful in acquiring peace in the world ridden with tensions due to narrowness in vision.