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May 27, 2002, Chandigarh, India
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PRINCIPALSPEAK ONCE a man fell off a steep cliff and began to
plunge into a bottomless depth. Somewhere midway, he managed to grab a twig of a dried tree that was putting out from the side of the cliff. He grabbed it and cried out, “God! Please help me.” Immediately, a deep resonant voice replied, “Yes I’ll help you, but first let go off that twig.” The man looked to his left and then to his right and said, “but without this twig, I’ll fall.” The voice replied calmly, “I have said I’ll help you, but first let go off that twig.” The man again looked to his left and right and cried aloud, “Is there somebody else?” This story makes us realise that our pride and vanity are like the dried twig in the story. These keep us away from the good, that’s inherent in each one of us, and fill us with a false sense of security. They prevent us from putting our faith in the true values of life. Humility is not just a virtue. It is the sign of your inner strength. Only a person, who believes in himself, trusts God and has found inner peace can display humility. A humble person, thus, is a strong person, who draws his strength from the good. Often, humility is considered to be a sign of submission. However, this is not true. It simply indicates a person’s ability to respect other people. Rude words and hurtful behaviour make a person aggressive, and aggression is an inferior quality. Humility does not mean passivity or accepting things lying down. Getting up for a cause is as essential as being polite. By upholding your beliefs you prove that you lead a life of principles. But while doing so, follow the dictum that Gandhiji gave, “Be gentle, fearless and truthful.” Humility and politeness are crucial to good behaviour. Courteous manners towards your colleagues, respectful behaviour towards your seniors and obedience and love towards your parents makes you a very amiable and special person. Kabir extols these virtues in his couplet – “The more fruit laden a tree, the more it’ll bow down to earth”. In humility you show your true worth. Politeness of words and humility are lifelong assets. A soft-spoken person is well liked and sought after as a friend. Thus, do away with your ego and pride. Just as you can pour tea only when a cup is empty. Similarly, you can absorb wisdom only when your mind is devoid of pride. Treat everybody with politeness, even those who are rude to you. For remember, that you show courtesy to others not because they are gentlemen, but because you are one. “Kind words, can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless,” said Mother Teresa. |
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