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Let all
prostitutes be rehabilitated
By Reeta Sharma
I HAVE always been fond of reading
Hindi literature as much as English or Russian books.
American literature could not sustain my interest except
for "Old Man and the Sea" or Ayn Rand.
Hindi literature is still my favourite but mostly the
books written before the fifties. Between English and
Russian, I have always been more attached to the latter,
with authors like Chekhov, Tolstoy, Maxim Gorky being my
favourite ones.
Talking of Hindi
literature I must admit that Prem Chand, Mahashweta Devi,
Nirmal Verma, Agyey, Sadat Hassan Manto, Sahir Ludhianvi
and Kedar Nath Singh moulded my thinking during the
growing process. I always found Mantos and
Sahirs language and expression extremely gripping
and their writings closer to reality, with imagination
being a matter of only creative style. While Sahirs
poetry, mostly in Hindi film songs, has given me hope,
inspiration and romanticism, Manto etched in my mind
emotionalism, consideration for others and compassion.
Though born in Samrala, Manto died in Pakistan two months
before I was born. Yet how often I have wished he had
opted to live in India during the bloody partition.
Sadat Hassan Manto wrote
in Urdu but most of his works are available in Hindi. He
wrote on the lives of the poor and deprived besides
sensitive social issues and exploitation of women. Among
all the burning issues of society, one that Manto dealt
with extensively was prostitution. He wrote Hatak",
"Kali Salwar", "Khushia", "Harta
Chala Gaya", etc and many such stories which
exposed the hypocricy, contradictions and paradoxes of
our society, regarding the unfortunate profession of
prostitution.
Manto, it seems, was
deeply hurt and concerned about the women who got trapped
into prostitution. He has touched the subject with
sensitivity, baring the nakedness of the universal truth
that prostitution is ugly, yet an integral part of human
life. Even Sahir Ludhianvi paid an emotional tribute to
women who were forced into prostitution with songs like, "Aurat
Ne Janam Diya Mardon Ko". However, Manto beat
all writers of his times by touching on this subject in
at least a dozen of his famous stories.
Through one of his
characters Manto wrote, "Prostitution is the oldest
profession of the world". In yet another story he
ridicules society for looking down upon the prostitutes
and indulging in criminal hypocricy. At one stage the
wise and powerful locals take a unanimous decision to
banish the prostitutes living amongst them, beyond the
boundary of the municipality. However, after a couple of
years a full-fledged locality grows around the area from
where the prostitutes were banished. Once again the wise
and the influential are shown debating as to where to
drive away the prostitutes now. He weaves the story with
his typical deftness of style and skill. His writings
grip his readers as if they are under a spell of swimming
with him subconsciously, and being one with the
characters, completely losing their own identity.
I am sure that it is Sadat
Hassan Manto who has left such an indelible impact on my
mind that till date I have never been able to forget this
story. The incredible effect this story had on my
impressionable mind could be gauged from the fact that I
do not hate prostitutes. On the contrary I have a soft
corner for all the women who are trapped in this
profession. I am convinced that they are victims of
circumstance. Manto says it is the oldest profession of
the world. But how old? What is it after all? Who made
the laws and what laws? These are some of the questions
that have often troubled my mind. I was fairly restless
when I read a news item that two young women, living by
themselves in a village in a subdivision of Rohtak, were
ordered by the SDM to be removed from the area on charges
of prostitution. Again, I was haunted by Mantos
story. Has the removal of the two women eradicated
prostitution? Why does this irony exist even today in the
so-called modern century?
Like the riddle of Adam
and Eve even this riddle remains unsolved. Who causes
prostitution the prostitute or her client? The
definition of prostitution is primarily based on
culturally determined values that have differed in
societies and countries throughout the centuries.
However, the Oxford dictionary meaning of prostitution is
"engaging in sexual activity promiscuously both by
women and men in return for financial or personal gains.
In ancient Greece, it
appears that a class of professional courtesans were
allowed to coexist within society. These women were
primarily foreigners or slaves or freed women who not
only cultivated their physical beauty but also added to
their personality by developing many talents, besides
enriching their brains. In fact this practice set these
women as a class apart, drawing men to them who could not
seek beauty or brains in an average woman. They were
called Hetaira in Greek. They mostly lived
fashionably alone or two or three of them together.
Records say they enjoyed an enviable position of wealth
and were taxed by the state. These women enjoyed greater
freedom than the married ones, who were culturally bound
to live within the four walls of their home. These women
were frequented by married men but society did not object
to the practice. The physical beauty and cultural
accomplishments of these Greek courtesans primarily
enabled them to earn their bread because society did not
permit them any other respectable alternative.
However, during the Middle
Ages, the church made some notable attempts in Europe to
rehabilitate the regretful and conscience-stricken
prostitutes. There was an effort to find grooms for
them to marry and such marriages were funded by the
church. Nevertheless, prostitution continued to flourish
despite the fact that European society was apparently
strictly governed by the much-approved civil and decorous
love through marriages. Prostitution was accepted as
integral part of human life, for it was fully protected
under law and licences. Interestingly, Europe also earned
a large volume of revenue from prostitution.
Again records show that
brothels were opened in all the main cities of Europe.
The earnings of these places were equally shared by the
cities and universities. Eventually, even British
Parliament stepped in when it began licensing brothels
which were earlier licensed by the bishop of Winchester.
However, in the 16th
century because of the widespread acceptance of
prostitution, an epidemic of venereal disease broke out.
This alarmed the European society, which then was forced
to take certain steps to ensure general hygiene and
health care of the prostitutes. Soon after the
Reformation Movement followed, forcing the closure of all
brothels. What is significant to note is that despite the
closure of brothels, the venereal disease continued to
kill people, inviting further strictness in rules. These
efforts met with no success. By 1899 almost the entire
world joined to stamp out prostitution. Two decades later
in 1921 the League of Nations formulated a Committee on
Trafficking in Women and Children (CTWC).
As the matter stands
today, most of Europe has accepted prostitution as an
inseparable part of human life. Today laws related to
prostitution ensure checking of health hazards, besides
the crimes associated with it. England, through a
parliamentary Act of 1959, has prohibited open soliciting
by prostitutes. However, they are allowed to
operate from their homes. Any prostitute who
wishes to get out of this profession is fully supported
by the state in her rehabilitation into any other source
of livelihood.
In almost all states of
the USA today, prostitution and brothels are totally
banned. But the oldest profession exists all over this
country and the people and the state are fully aware of
it. Nevertheless, there is no law which may enable women
to help escape from this profession in case they were
trapped in it as victims of circumstances. China, on the
other hand, and the erstwhile Soviet Bloc countries claim
that they have succeeded in eradicating prostitution from
their land. But rampant child prostitution in China and
erstwhile Soviet states makes a mockery of their claim.
In India, too,
prostitution has existed throughout the centuries. In
Egypt, Akkadian, a class of sacred prostitutes, found
throughout the ancient Middle East, worshipped goddess
Oedeshu in the 19th and 20th dynasties (1317-1085 BC). It
has a similarity with the Indian tradition of "devdasis",
who were also called sacred prostitutes. I was aghast at
this kind of expression. If women became prostitutes in
the name of gods and temples, society was willing to give
them the status of "sacred prostitutes".
The tragedy of "devdasis" is well known
by now. They were primarily the deserted daughters, wives
and widows who were not skilled in any profession to
support themselves. But people of the time readily bought
the myth that they were Gods chosen women.
In our country women have
suffered for centuries in the male-dominated society. As
a widow she was expected to shave off her head, wear a
white dhoti, eat only once a day and remain outside the
main house. Even today the widows deserted at
"Banaras ghat" are a shocking example of the
existing attitude of our society. Similarly, the birth of
a daughter is still not welcome in a majority of rural
homes and many homes in cities, too. Against this
backdrop, Indian women who are caught in prostitution are
actually the ones whom life has pushed into it. Poverty
in our country has forced many parents to sell their
children, irrespective of their gender. So it is poverty
which has sent many women into prostitution, besides
other factors.
Somehow male prostitution
as compared to the female kind has neither flourished nor
invited as much attention. Nevertheless, in this century
the law treats both male and female prostitutes on equal
terms. Of course the law differs from society to society
and country to country. In practice in our country,
mostly its the women prostitutes who have been
forced to face not only the law but also the hostile
society. Prostitution is reprehensible. But who indulges
and causes it? Men or women? If dreams were wishes that
could be fulfilled, I would like to see all prostitutes
rehabilitated and lead a life of dignity. Their children
face social stigma for no fault of theirs. Who are the
real guilty is the question that keeps haunting me. When
will society accuse the men who first give birth to a
prostitute and then want her to be stoned, as was the
practice in India. Today literal stoning has been
replaced with accusing fingers, stringent laws, etc. But
the world of a prostitute remains the same dark
and soulless, without any hope of escape.
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