A matter of will
The habit of persistence is
acquired by willpower. Once you have made a choice of a
long-term goal, you must stick to it, writes I.M.
Soni
Will
is the real and innermost centre of human personality. It
is not the man who conquers the mountain. It is the hidden
willpower in him that does it.
Likewise, think
of a man with a weak will. He is pushed around by everybody, is
brushed off as a wishy-washy, and is the one who sits on the
last bench in an office meeting. He goes unnoticed in social
life. He is overcome by obstacles. But the man who has a strong
personality, overcomes obstacles. He finds fulfilment in career
as well as life, and accomplishes even insurmountable tasks.
Strong
willpower does not come without pre-conceived effort. Like
anything else valuable, it is to be had by anyone who wants it
— if he pays the price.
You must will
every day for a month, a year or even two. You can remake
yourself if you convince yourself of the need and worthwhileness
of such a necessity.
Visualise by
making an imaginary mental screen. This erases the negative
past. Now, picture the positive. See as clearly as you can;
fruits will accrue from this exercise of steely willpower.
Change your
body language. Walk with your head held high, chest inflated.
Stride with strong, decisive steps. Brush aside speed-breakers.
Determination
to stick on is the factor which makes even an average person
successful. Its absence turns brilliance into failure or
mediocrity. Similarly, an average idea, carried through to a
moderately good conclusion, is more useful than a bright idea
that is unimplemented.
Lack of
persistence often goes with a want of method and an absence of
order. These are the signs of an untidy mind. To persist is to
preserve, which means to hold on despite obstacles.
Obey the edict:
"Do it now." Whenever something arises that needs to
be done, do it.
Putting things
in place, carrying out jobs in proper sequence, making sure all
tools and materials are at hand and counting different types of
items involved are manifestations of the orderly mind — the
basis for
achieving results.
Putting things
off, thinking to do them later, means that they will not be done
at all!
Use a time
schedule. The time at your disposal is limited. To make the best
use of it and to get things finished, it is necessary to set
aside a particular hour each day for that purpose. A lot can be
packed into a day if it is properly planned.
It is simple
common sense to budget time as carefully as money. The person
who does neither is always short of both time and money.
Time budgeting
is essential. Each day should begin with anything let left over
form the day before. In this way, you provide yourself with a
reminder which will nag at you until a task is completed. Once
you get into the way of working steadily, it becomes a habit.
You brush your teeth and shave as a routine time-fix.
Go slow, making
sure each task is done properly and without looking too far
ahead. As each little bit of the work is done, start thinking
about the next. When work has to be left, leave it in such a
state that you can start immediately when you resume. For
instance, break off in the middle of paragraph. You resume work
you carry on with the idea already in your mind. This gets you
going.
The habit of
persistence is acquired by willpower. Once you have made a
choice of a long-term goal, you must stick to it, putting other
things away. Your resolve may be tested when you come up against
your obstacle or a setback. The temptation to give up is strong.
Any goal worth
working for entails problems and difficulties. The more you have
to face, as a rule, the greater the success you have.
Instead of
blaming luck, look for the cause in your own actions. Re-arrange
your plans; see what lessons the setback can teach you. Then
start again, from the beginning, using a fresh approach.
Giving up in
the face of an obstacle is common. It is the sign of a weakling
who can go under when things are not well. The people of
character fight back and persist when things go badly.
If you are
honest, you admit that all too often things put off ‘‘until
circumstances are more favourable" or "until I have
more time" often prove to be off forever. A thing put off
today may never be done!
Admit that you
are putting off when you find an apparently good reason for
putting off some action. Be really sincere in wanting to end the
habit, for the excuse found for delay may be a handy way of
dodging an unwelcome job. Acknowledge it. This provides a useful
stimulus to end it. Your pride is involved. Do not tolerate any
exceptions. Postponing, condoned once, becomes harder to resist.
Keep in your mind three magical words, "Do it now."
Being extra
cautious, making sure circumstances are favourable are alibis
for procrastinating. A common way of side-stepping a job is to
find shelter in inability. "I cannot" really means
"I will not." It weakens determination. The will to
preserve is diluted.
Accustom yourself steadily day
after day to concentrate your attention on will and energy. You
will be well rewarded.
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