Entertainers or sex slaves?
Many young Punjabi girls are being forced into prostitution in the garb of working as dancers or entertainers, reports
Riva
Her
dark gloomy eyes reflect her shadowy past, unable to hide her
shame and pain. Sitting in a corner of a dark room, Rashmi (name
changed) prefers this darkness of a dingy room to bright neon
lights and posh hotel rooms. At the young age of 17, Rashmi has
already experienced the seamier side of life that lies behind
this glam world.
Her nightmarish
journey into this murky world began in cultured, air-conditioned
rooms of five-star hotels and culminated into this innocent
teenager becoming as a prostitute.
Women’s
trafficking in Punjab is not unheard of. While many young girls
from other parts are sneaked into the state to be employed as
sex slaves, a large number of Punjabi girls, in the garb of
working as performers, are being herded across the borders to do
the same job in metropolitan cities of India and Gulf countries
like Dubai.
Investigations
revealed that many of the musical groups operational in Punjab
act as mediators in whisking off young women to Arab countries
and other Indian cities for dancing, a euphuism for
prostitution.
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More than one lakh women are a part of around 5,000 orchestra groups operating in Punjab, though all of them are not involved in prostitution (The faces of the girls have been blurred to protect their identities)
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"I had joined
a musical group a year back and was promised Rs 500 per show. We
performed at music shows, at marriages and other parties, mostly
during late evenings. Two months into the job, my employer
started asking me to stay back at her house to help her with
household chores. Then came a time when I was prohibited to go
out or meet my parents without her or her husband’s
permission.
"Show or no
show, I couldn’t go home. They always had an excuse. One day,
they asked me to join them on a three-month tour to Bangalore
for a series of Punjabi cultural shows. They offered Rs 15,000
per month for the job. Forced by poor financial circumstances,
my parents agreed and I, too, went reluctantly. Only after
reaching there did I realise what was my actual work. I was
hired by a hotel on Bangalore’s posh MG Road for pleasing its
customers for a period of three months. They had signed a
contract to this effect with my employer. I was in trouble in a
strange land not knowing its language," narrates Rashmi,
while giving details of her harrowing tale.
Rashmi, a
good-looking girl of 17, is a resident of Basti Danishmandan in
Jalandhar. She left studies after completing Class X and started
working with a musical group in the city to supplement her
family’s income. After joining the group, she was forced to do
menial jobs at the house of her employer and was frequently
subjected to torture and abuse for not giving in to their unjust
demands. She was also underpaid on the pretext that money had
been spent on buying make-up and dress material for her.
But her real
nightmare began once she landed in Bangalore. She found herself
one among the 50 women present there to pander to the demands of
the male customers of the hotel. "The guests, as we called
them, would take us out for a movie or shopping They would give
us gifts and in return expected to be treated like boyfriends.
They could talk anything and we were not supposed to spoil their
mood, whatever the provocation," discloses Rashmi. The 50
women in the hotel had come from different parts of the country
and even from as far as Nepal.
“Penury, betrayal, illiteracy and abuse are classic ingredients of our lives. Everybody talks about
izzat, but izzat isn’t going to feed my family, is it? You need money to survive.
— Madhu (name changed)
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Though she
hesitates to speak clearly, Rashmi confesses that she was
pressurised to do what she obliquely refers to as ‘wrong
things’. "We were five girls in that hotel from Jalandhar
and I learnt that many more from the city were into the same
business in other hotels of Bangalore. In fact, Hindi-speaking
girls were at a premium there," she adds.
Anjali Sinha, an
activist with NGO Stree Adhikar Sangathan, reveals that there is
an inter-state nexus between such ‘gangs’ that recruit
innocent girls under the garb of dancing and later push them
into prostitution.
"India is in
the process of widespread economic and social restructuring
because of capitalisation and globalisation, which have changed
the social fabric of our society. Everything today is driven by
capital. Women and children are increasingly becoming
commodities to be bought, sold and consumed by tourists,
military personnel, organised crime rings, traffickers, and men
seeking sexual entertainment without responsibility," adds
Anjali Sinha.
Though Rashmi has
since quit the troupe, many of her friends are still into it and
are doing a tour of Dubai at present.
When The Tribune
spoke to one such girl in Dubai, she confessed that they were
actually working as sex slaves, providing entertainment to their
‘guests’ for money and material goods.
"I dance in a
hotel bar. In three months, I earn about Rs 2.5 lakh. I dance
for about six hours a day, from 6 pm to 12 am. During this time,
forget eating, I cannot even drink water without my customer’s
permission. If he wants me to drink while dancing, I have to do
it`85 I had an inkling about the nature of work here while I was
in Bangalore, but still went ahead`85 due to certain
compulsions," discloses Alisha.
Alisha has signed
a three-month contract with the hotel. She cannot step out
unless her customer pays a stipulated amount to the hotel
management. "It is like being literally enslaved`85 trapped
in this vicious circle of prostitution and moral degeneration`85
I cannot escape since I am the only bread-winner for my family,
back in India`85" she sobs.
"Once trapped
in the quagmire of flesh trade, escape is very unlikely. It’s
like a never-ending, widening gyre whose stigma lives with you
like a ghost..." she adds.
But, why join such
professions in the first place? "At 16, I married against
my parents’ wishes. The guy turned out to be a drug-addict.
After three years of marriage and two children to feed, I walked
out of this abusive relationship. But my parents refused to help
me. So, I got a job as a domestic helper with an NRI family in
Deep Singh Nagar, Bathinda. I was given a room, too. But the
owner started demanding sexual favours and I decided to quit the
job to work in an orchestra, run by a neighbour’s relative.
Good looks were my passport to the job. But, I soon realised
that it was not all about dancing," confides Madhu (name
changed).
"Penury,
betrayal, illiteracy and abuse are classic ingredients of our
lives. Everybody talks about izzat, but izzat isn’t
going to feed my family, is it? You need money to survive, and I
had no other options," adds Madhu.
In August last
year, the Bathinda police had rounded up several girls who were
involved in flesh trade in the guise of orchestra business.
According to a
report by the Central Bureau of Investigation reports, the
global human trafficking industry affects an estimated six to
eight million people annually and is worth $ 9 billion. A survey
conducted by the National Commission for Women estimates that
378 districts (62 per cent) of India are affected by trafficking
of women and children for commercial sexual exploitation.
"Women, the
world over, are vulnerable to sexual exploitation, especially,
when they are migrants or refugees and when they are suffering
from poverty or affected by racism and caste structure. Women
and children are forced into the industry by violence, lack of
economic alternatives, deception, debt bondage and financial
enslavement. It is a human rights disaster. It is high time the
government seriously tackled the menace that has assumed
alarming proportions," says Jai Singh, who runs the
Volunteers for Social Justice, an NGO.
Most of the girls
are either forced into the profession by parents, or are victims
of poverty and unemployment. Minal (34), a resident of Guru
Nanakpura, Bathinda, has been dancing since she was 17, earning
anything between Rs 8,000 and Rs 12,000 a month. After she
failed in Class X, her widowed mother married her off. But as
luck would have it, her moments of joy were short-lived. Just
three months into the marriage, her drunkard husband started
forcing her to sleep with other men to earn some money.
"I was young
and good looking. One day, a customer asked me to join a western
orchestra group then operational in the town. Sometimes you need
to pay with your soul to earn a livelihood. I then started to
work as a prostitute, disguised as a dancer," she sobs.
"I have been to Mumbai, Hyderabad and Bangalore on ‘business’
tours," she adds.
There are around
5,000 orchestra groups in Punjab, involving more than one lakh
women.
Although common,
such cases don’t usually come to the notice of the police.
"Rarely do we come across such cases. Given our society’s
attitude towards the victim, girls and their families prefer to
keep mum. The police, society and the politicians should work in
tandem to curb this menace," says Manjeet Kaur, in-charge,
Women’s Cell, Jalandhar.
President of the
Lok Bhalai Party, Balwant Singh Ramoowalia, says that while his
party had not received any written or formal complaint hitherto,
such incidents are quite common in Punjab. "Faced with
unemployment and compelling family needs, young beautiful girls,
sometimes even well-educated ones, are forced into this dirty
business for the want of money. They do not choose it by
preference, but out of sheer necessity, often after broken
marriages or being disowned by families," he adds.
But president of
the Punjab Orchestra Association Vijay Sahota dubs these reports
as false, saying: "Though incidents of pushing dancers or
orchestra singers into prostitution had come to light in
Bathinda in the late 1990s, after our association was formed in
2000, no such case has been reported."
"Artistes are
poor, not immoral. If the organisers play foul, the girls should
complain to us. Our association will definitely come to their
rescue and help them get due respect," he concludes.
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