TELEVISTA
Beware of the
enemy within
Amita Malik
EVERY time we open
a newspaper or switch on the radio or TV, news and images of
horrendous crimes send a chill down our spines. The
demonstrations by the Gujjars are on a large scale and of
national proportions. But what concerns us more directly as
ordinary citizens is the increasing number of domestic crimes
which are shown and discussed on all these channels. TV is now
within the reach of most urban dwellers.
Servant quarters
and jhuggis, it seems, now have TV sets, and what
concerns us even more than the items of news showing and
discussing crime, is the effect it has on viewers. Do all the
domestic servants watching TV get the wrong ideas from these
channels or do these act as a deterrent? Possibly, considering
how these murders and robberies by servants are shown almost
daily on the electronic media.
Let us not trust blindly the references given by neighbours' servants or the guarantee of the domestic help who has recommended his successor
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Then, considering
the number of elderly people being ruthlessly murdered in what
should be the quiet evening of their lives, does it encourage
them to register their newly hired attendants immediately with
the police or, as happens, they leave it till it is too late?
One saw on TV the very innocent looking face of the young boy
who allegedly murdered the elderly couple in Niti Bagh, an upper
class locality of South Delhi.
Those of us who
have been brought up not to be too suspicious of people tend to
err on the wrong side. I think those of us who literally go by
face value would certainly have trusted that young face.
Instead, one has to live in constant fear of being attacked
inside what should be the safe walls of our homes. In fact, the
daily reports of people being attacked and killed inside their
homes are making such happenings seem almost normal. Which is a
dangerous way of thinking.
As we have no way
of finding out how the mind of a potential criminal works, it
would be more practical for us to monitor our own attitudes. In
this respect the media does its best to goad us into doing the
right things, such as checking the antecedents of potential
employees before hiring them. We should also not trust blindly
the references given by neighbours' servants or the guarantee of
the domestic help who has recommended his successor.
From time to time
the police announce that they are carrying out door-to-door
checks. But as we all know, this peters out after the first
flurry following a domestic crime. We all tend to take things
easy because it is difficult to get a reliable servant these
days.
But what about the
horror of families literally at each other's throats? In one of
the most terrifying cases in recent weeks, a father has been
taken into custody for the alleged murder of his daughter on the
eve of her 14th birthday. How do we, ordinary viewers, with
children of our own, take such a crime? How do we react to the
attitude of the mother who rushes to the defence of her husband
while saying loudly that no mother could forgive the murderer of
her daughter, no matter who he is?
Which all goes to
prove that human nature is, indeed, a very complicated one and
we never stop being surprised at how people react in the most
unexpected ways when face to face with a crisis.
For sports lovers
there are a number of exciting national and international events
which clash with each other and strain our loyalties. Do we
watch how Sachin and Jayasuriya fare as opening batsmen or
switch over to Roland Garros where the world's best tennis
players are slogging it out in Paris? Well, I usually choose the
foreign event because we see quite a lot of our home heroes
around the year.
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