THIS ABOVE ALL
Tales from Heera Mandi
Khushwant Singh
IT
is not a diamond market as its name suggests. It took its name from Raja
Heera Singh Dogra, a great favourite of Maharaja Ranjit Singh who built
his haveli there. It is probably the oldest red light district in the
subcontinent, much older than Kamatipura in Mumbai, Sonagachi of Kolkata
or Chauri Bazar of Delhi, which is no longer the abode of dancing girls
or prostitutes. Heera Mandi has survived the onslaughts of puritanical
mullahs and Taliban elements on the Islamic Republic of Pakistan. Flesh
trade flourished in Heera Mandi through the reigns of Pakistan’s
military dictators, as it did in the days of the Sikh rule.
During my years in
Government College, Lahore, which is within walking distance, many
students lost their virginity in Heera Mandi. And during the seven years
that I practised law I heard of stag parties of lawyers where women from
this area were brought for the amusement of legal luminaries. There was
much talk of beauties who had just entered the profession: Nayaa Maal
(new goods) was highly priced.
Lives of courtesans,
dancing girls and prostitutes hold a strong fascination. They titillate
male libido. Very few realise what tragically sordid lives these
so-called ladies of pleasure lead. To wit I recollect Arif lines from Tawaif:
Naghme jinhen samjhe ho
woh nalonki hai awaaz
Yeh naaz-o-adaa hain
mere dukh-dard ke ghammaaz
Yeh nach nahin dil ke
tarapne ka hai andaaz
Dukhta hai badan, hilta
hai har jor badan kaa
Andaza kare kaun mere
ranjo mehan kaa!
What you take for song
is a wail of lament
All this coquetry hides
my sorrow and pain
This is not dancing, it
is my heart in anguish
My body hurts, every
joint aches,
Who can gauge my sorrow
and pain.
Louise Brown, Professor
of Sociology at the University of Birmingham (UK), spent four years
living with prostitutes of Hira Mandi. Her book The Dancing Girls of
Lahore: Selling Love and Saving Dreams in Pakistan’s ancient Pleasure
District (Fourth Estate) is not titillating stuff. On the contrary
it is most depressing. It is largely based on a prostitute named Maha,
daughter of a prostitute. As she is ageing and her market price falling,
she is preparing her 12-year-old daughter to enter the profession. The
starting price runs into a lakh or more. In their teens, girls become das
hazarees — worth Rs 10,000. Then they decline to below 100. Their
fathers and brothers act as their pimps. While families live in squalid
havelis, stinking of shit and stale smell of cooking onions, they are in
a bind. They would like to get their daughters married and lead
respectable lives. But, there are no takers for these women.
Life well lived
"In the evening of
one’s life, most of us are invariably drawn into spells of solitude.
To an extent this is something ingrained in us by the Creator so that
with the onset of age, in moments of solitude, we go back in time, and
skimming over the years carry out an impartial assessment of one’s own
life." With these words Wg Cdr P.K. Karayi (retd) begins his
autobiography Images At Eventide (English Edition).
During his career, he
was posted at the Air Attache’s office in London and during Queen
Elizabeth and her husband’s visit to India in 1961 was
Equerry-in-Waiting. He retired in 1978 and now lives with his wife in
Mumbai, where his children and grandchildren are frequent visitors. He
adds to his pension by free-lancing for many papers.
Karayi wields a light
pen and highlights many amusing incidents in his life. He writes of a
fellow officer who stuttered badly. When communicating his position to
the Control Tower before landing, his staccato utterances caused much
confusion. On another occasion, when a political neta standing in
for the president was to take the salute and address officers, a strong
gale picked up, knocked down the shamiana and blew the neta’s
dhoti above his waist. There are many similar occurrences.
He ends his life story
with yet one more episode: "Jullundhar has some excellent
bungalows. One of our friends Premjit Lal had moved into a sprawling
bungalow with a big garden and several out-houses. One morning, a very
robust Sikh came over and folded his hands with a respectable namaste to
the lady of the house. "Memsabji,", he asked, "can you
allow me to live in one of your outhouses," The lady readily
agreed. After a few days, one of the neighbours quietly mentioned to the
lady of the house that the sardarji they had given the out-house to, was
a well-known dacoit. Rather perturbed, the next morning she accosted the
sardarji and asked: "I have been told by some neighbours that you
are a dacoit. Is that true?" The sardarji, totally unruffled,
replied: "Yes, Maiji, I am a dacoit but I can assure you that as
long as I am staying in your kothi nobody will have the courage
to break into your house."
Misplaced hopes
An astrologer told the
gullible Opposition,
"Cheer up, my
friends, don’t worry at all.
Manmohan Singh will not
stay for long
Within days his
Government will fall."
The saffron brigade
cried in chorus
"Manmohan’s
throne is set on sand
How can he exercise PM’s
power?
He is just a puppet in
Sonia’s hand."
Goaded by the
green-eyed monster
And egged by motives
sinister,
An aspirant for PM’s
post yelled,
"Manmohan is a
weak Prime
Minister."
The astrological
prediction proved false
Ill-conveived
misgivings were set at rest
Manmohan completed full
one year in office
He passed with credit
the preliminary test.
(Contributed by G.C. Bhandari, Meerut)
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