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Sunday, June 29, 2003
Books

Journey through mid-life marital blues
Rajnish Wattas

The Uncoupling
by Cauvery Madhavan. Penguin, New Delhi. Pages 239. Rs 250.

The UncouplingTHIS book is likely to be of interest to only a limited readership because of it deals mainly with the marital problems of people in a particular age group. Even the ones who are interested in the issue that the author tackles will need plenty of patience to undertake the long, tedious journey. Although the theme chosen is certainly unusual and is bound to be of interest to those who can relate to it, for others it might be of no interest. An inability to sustain the readers’ interest, long-winded descriptions and a bland narrative style do tend to jar.

It is the story of a traditional, middle-aged, middle-class, South-Indian couple, Balu and Janaki, who after 33 years of placid, uneventful marriage take a big trip to visit their son and daughter-in-law in the UK. Their son, who is very busy with his work, sends them on a 16-day coach tour of Europe. Balu Shankar, the male protagonist, has dominated the marriage without any serious challenge from his wife and they have lived in reasonable harmony until they make the trip to Britain. "A two-night stop in Amsterdam at the start of the tour leaves Balu struggling with an appetite for newly discovered sexual possibilities and before they know it, the Shankars find their marriage unravelling, one stitch at a time, even as their coach tour hurtles around Europe, exposing them to a new world and new perspectives."

Using the details of external travel as a metaphor for internal journeys, and thereby unveiling new stirrings of the heart in a man-woman relationship; Cauvery Madhavan explores a usually hushed-up aspect of the lives of such couples – suppressed sexuality, says the blurb.

 


The fireworks, after numerous damp squibs really begin as the coach reaches Amsterdam. "At this city, however, a walk through the red light areas gives Balu new and startling ideas, and he is left to struggle between his newly discovered sexual tastes and his old cherished convictions, Janaki meanwhile is introduced to alcohol by other members of the party and goes to bed drunk. This begins a series of recriminations and guilt trips as husband and wife try to gauge each other’s feelings through their actions and fail altogether."

With such a difficult-to-handle theme, it is interesting to observe how the book makes an attempt to balance irony and travelogue, "yet never quite seeming to even suggest the, serious unravelling that the marriage undergoes, bit by whirlwind bit"

South Indian nuances of life and social mores do, at times, elevate the narrative to R.K.Narayansque levels, albeit weakly. Similarly the long, mundane, and mocking details of Balu’s traditional Indian-style hunt for a suitable bride through a newspaper evokes suspicion that the writer has made an attempt to whet the Western audiences’ appetite for quaint and exotic India.

The most fascinating aspect and strength of the book is the writer’s keen observation and descriptions of "unspoken exchanges", between married Indian couples.

The author is certainly at her best while building the basic theme of the rekindling of suppressed sexuality of a middle-aged, conservative Indian couple with finesse and sensitivity. The deft handling of a ‘taboo’ topic among the Indian middle class is a tribute to Cauvery’s boldness, and to her fine understanding of the emotions of such couples.

The limited use of dialogue is a device deliberately used by the writer to deal with an ‘under the wraps’ issue; but makes for a tedious narrative. The descriptive part of the journey through Europe is also rarely enchanting. The poetic landscape of Switzerland is prosaically penned down as, "the road began to rise steadily and the scenery grew more magnificent with each passing mile. Everywhere they looked they could see verdant meadows dotted with farmhouses that had window boxes with geraniums overflowing with geraniums `85 " Nevertheless, welcome aboard ‘Cauvery coach’ for bored, middle-aged couples. But do stop at Amsterdam for recharging your sexual batteries!