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Sunday, June 29, 2003
Books

Meet the author
Dowry needs to be dealt with, not ignored
Aditi Tandon

Seema Sirohi’s book Sita’s Curse traces the lives of dowry victims
Seema Sirohi’s book Sita’s Curse traces the lives of dowry victims

WHEN USA-based journalist Seema Sirohi came to India with her husband on his three-year posting in 2000, she was no longer looking for news. Enough of news had happened since the 1980s when she joined the New Delhi bureau of the Associated Press after studying journalism at the University of Kansas, Lawrence.

As a field reporter committed to the truth and to all those lofty ideals that draw the conscientious to journalism, Seema began with talking about the pain that others live through and finding ways to expose those who cause it. She remembers how during the eighties dowry was beginning to assume alarming proportions and was an issue that pricked the nation’s conscience.

"The details of dowry crimes would get more and more brutal with every new case that came to light. Naturally, dowry violence was an area of principal concern for the media. There were countless stories of horror, brutality and cold-blooded murder in the name of dowry. I reported many cases that could rip apart any heart with the crudity of their details. Today dowry seems to have disappeared from national consciousness even though thousands of women continue to be burnt, poisoned, electrocuted or forced to commit suicide every year," said Seema Sirohi, whose commitment to truth and justice has never flagged.

 


After over 16 years of reporting on significant political developments as The Telegraph correspondent from Washington, Seema today has something non-political and more humane in nature to talk about. Using the tool she knows so well, the petite journalist has attempted to bring the issue of dowry back in the limelight by documenting the case histories of six dowry victims across the country. Sita’s Curse, the first book of its kind, traces the lives of women who have suffered the curse of dowry and of their families, which fought legal battles for justice.

One of the cases is especially significant for its contribution to the anti-dowry law in India. This is the case of Delhi’s Satyarani Chadha, who fought for 20 years to seek punishment for her son-in-law, who had burnt to death his six-month pregnant wife. So long drawn out was the legal battle that even the laws changed during the course of the case proceedings. It was during the hearing of this case that the IPC was amended in 1986 to incorporate Section 304-B that, for the first time, defined a dowry death. Although Satyarani finally secured a sentence of seven years’ rigorous imprisonment against her son-in-law, he actually served only two months in jail, thus defeating the very purpose of the law.

Seema Sirohi was in the city recently on a private visit. She talked of how she documented the cases that laid bare the pain of women subjected to dowry violence in India. "This book is a detour. It makes no pretence to anything academic and is purely non-fictional in nature. The focus is on pain of betrayal and abuse; on parents’ relentless fight against injustice; and on the tardy legal processes that serve to aggravate the situation rather than control it." Seema began researching about three years back when her husband (who works with the US Foreign Services) got a posting to Kolkata. "When I came here I realised that cases of dowry harassment no longer merited prime positions in newspapers. Even stories of dowry deaths were now being pushed to the inside pages, reflecting a clear shift in social priorities. Where earlier dowry was a principal concern, now even women’s organisations were focusing more on the other emerging problems like child abuse and female infanticide. I was not comfortable with the idea of allowing dowry to be relegated to the background. I had to do something to bring it back into focus. Hence the book."

Seema used to sit in libraries, flipping through newspaper clippings for hours. "I picked up stories where the family had reacted and sought legal recourse. There had to be some logic behind what I wanted to convey. I also chose stories of courage exhibited by some dowry victims in reconstructing their lives," said Seema. After three years of extensive research that included interviews with the families of victims, police officers involved in the investigations, lawyers and women activists, Seema came out with Sita’s Curse, published by Harper Collins India Ltd.

A poignant account of six victims of dowry, it deals with each case in a separate chapter. The book begins with Mother Courage, the story of Satyarani whose daughter was burnt for dowry by her husband. "Satyarani invested all her money in fighting the case which was dismissed by the police as a kitchen accident. Even the Supreme Court dismissed the case, but she went back to the trial court with a private complaint and fought the case again for 20 years. Finally, her son-in-law, who was sentenced to seven years’ rigorous imprisonment, served only two months in jail," said Seema. The next story is that of Delhi’s Jyoti Dhawan, whose husband was starving her to death for dowry. She weighed only 21 kg when the Delhi police rescued her from a hole of an apartment away from her home. Jyoti is now fighting her case in a trial court. The next account is that of Chandigarh’s Tikka Preet, whose husband drove her to suicide for dowry. Tikka’s father Col N.S. Pandher is also fighting a legal battle in a trial court.

To reaffirm hope in life, Seema has also included the story of Karnataka’s Archana, a dowry victim from America, who later became a lawyer and helped other women in trouble. Besides, there is the account of Mary Pierrera from Karnataka who walked out on her husband who demanded dowry 24 hours before the marriage. The book wraps up with the case of Maria Bee, who is still engaged in a legal battle to secure justice for her daughter who was burnt to death in 1998. Apart from showing how the victims faced a backlash from the male-dominated system for trying to bring their tormentors to justice, the book also shows how the perpetrators of dowry crimes exist everywhere, irrespective of class, caste and country.