Saturday, November 18, 2000 |
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OVER the last 50 years, there have been dramatic changes in what is perceived as a ‘beautiful’ body. From a mild interest in maintaining a good physique a few decades back to a virtual obsession with "looking right"women in India have come a long way. Nowadays, the so-called "lollipop ladies" abound (thus termed because their body silhouettes resemble lollipops — sticks for bodies, topped with heads). To get that look, they are constantly under pressure to starve, to mutilate, and they hate themselves if they are "only normal women." International
influences on Indian women in matters of looks, fashion and lifestyle
are a major reason for the shifting perception of what is beautiful.
Photographs of reed-thin models in glossy magazines must also take the
responsibility for the obsession with body image. Surprisingly, this
ideally desirable body image has been promoted not by or for men but by
other women. By and large, it is believed men like voluptuous women and
women do understand that to be attractive to the opposite sex, it isn’t
necessary to look starved. However, for their own self-esteem and
confidence, the "perfect body" becomes important. In a
perverse sort of a way, women’s self-image has liberated them from the
bondage of wanting to look a certain way only for men. In fact, women
have chosen a completely different look from what is traditionally
considered desirably by men and, thus, have consciously made their own
choice. |
The increasing interchange-ability of looks where India unconditionally accepts the western silhouette is resulting in a universal look for Indian women. Girls now have role models who emphasise weight and shape without a thought for what is healthy, feminine and desirable. They go to dangerous lengths to acquire ’the look.’ In the UK, a British Medical Association report revealed that approximately one million people in the country were anorexic or bulimic, and 58 per cent girls found their appearance to be the greatest pre-occupation in their lives. As many as two-thirds found themselves feeling inadequate compared to media images of the ideal female. India, too, has cause to worry because anorexia and bulimia (eating disorders) that were hardly known a decade ago have now become household worries. Thanks to skeletal stars like Alley McBeal (Calista Flockart), the body image can become a problem for thousands of women. Not just people suffering from eating disorders, but normal, everyday, healthy women suffer anxieties and self-disgust as they mull over their perceived inadequacies. Of course, when one looks at a reed-thin model, one can argue that she can’t possibly be considered the norm and the way she looks is pure fantasy unless one has a team of stylish, professional photographers, flattering lighting and computer enhancement at hand. But being the glamour junkies that most women are, the message that they receive from the media is that it is not attractive to have a stomach, thighs or hips of normal female proportions. In fact, thousands of women are spending a serious amount of time and money to surmount their "physical handicaps." Mentally and emotionally, too, an unrealistic body image affects the quality of life. No one can dispute the confidence that the realisation of looking good can generate. However, when "looking good" reads "looking thin", body confidence can take quite a battering. This results in calorie-counting, over exercising and fretting about the body, not to mention the guilt that a cola or a samosa can generate. The truth, however, is that the super-waif look, beloved to the catwalk, is possible if a woman eats nothing but salad and exercises herself to exhaustion. So the message that a multitude of women are receiving from the fashion industry and fashion media is that to be attractive and successful, a woman must look a certain way. Fat or even normal women aren’t worth bothering with. To break out of this masochistic bind that women have worked themselves into, it is essential that positive images of healthy, natural models are projected. Media should use images of women with whom the vast multitude can identify. Let females be happy with their curves or voluptuousness by allowing healthy women models all those lovely designer clothes which anyone would want to possess. Why must a woman be size 8 to be fashionable? She can be a good size 12-14-16 and still be bang up to the minute when it comes to her wardrobe. Luckily in the India, there remains a ray of hope. Cable TV, which has brought us the reed-thin models and performers, has also brought forth "women of substance" who dare to be "wholesome." If one looks at the stars of the soaps on the small screen, one sees that many of these women are as normal as can be reasonably accepted of stars. Shefali Chaya, Neena Gupta, Divya Seth etc. act in serials which convincingly portray them as desirable women with several swains. Of course there are others like Achint Kaur as well, but a healthy mix beamed over the cable can only lead to a more acceptable and realistic body image among the women viewers. There are also some Bollywood heroines
even today who remain popular in spite of their rounded figures like
Kajol, Rani Mukherjee, Preity Zinta, and Tabu. Women love them and if
they stay around they may be able to engender more realistic standards
of an acceptable body image. |