Making a
statement with skin and bones
Fashion
By Laika Jain
AT one time, Raja Ravi
Varmas painting of a voluptuous Shakuntala
epitomised feminine beauty in India. Buxom beauties like
Madhubala and Asha Parekh represented this ideal on the
silver screen. Later, Sridevis famous "thunder
thighs" carried this fantasy even further.
Today,
the generously endowed Indian woman is doing a rethink on
her figure. With reed-like silhouttes turning
fashionable, the race to be thin and thinner has crossed
all barriers of age and profession from 16 to 60,
from housewife to high-flying executives, every body
wants to be slim.
For such a woman, food
is only to be monitored, not enjoyed. Salads are the only
things that bring her closest to ethereal bliss. And
should she, per chance indulge in sweet nothings, she
punishes herself with a few extra hours at the
neighbourhood gym.
"Its trendy
to be thin," observes Mary Ann Bhardwaj, a
cosmetologist working with a slimming centre in Bombay.
"A lot of them are already thin, but they are still
unhappy. Hips and thighs are problem areas and they all
want the inches off even though there are no inches in
spare."
Indeed, slimming centres
have to handle more psychological problems than physical.
"We have to put them through intense counselling so
that they feel better about themselves," says Suman
Chadha, a gynaecologist who examines women before
enrolling them in a health club.
But with men bringing
their wives in and even children, getting their mothers,
the anorexic wave has reached maniacal proportions.
"They come with a specific weight in mind and demand
that they be made to lose the requiredweight to reach
that target," says Bhardwaj.
What remains unsaid in
these situations is that the Indian woman has decided her
body must somehow or the other, be a clone of her western
counterpart. That she is built differently with a wider
bone structure is apparently, of no consequence.
So theres a
15-year-old Anita Menon (name changed) who wouldnt
mind coughing up Rs 1,000 to shed an extra kilo. Images
of skinny European models, which bombard her
impressionable mind every day on satellite television and
magazines, have left her unhappy about her body.
After two months at the
slimming clinic, when she looks into the mirror, all she
sees are the inches disappearing off her
already-too-skinny thighs. She doesnt see the glow
and freshness of youth wiped off her face or the pale,
sickly girl going way below what her natural bodyweight.
"These girls come
to me in a very depressed state and without any
self-esteem because they think they are over-weight and
that their boy-friends or husbands do not like them any
longer," explains Chadha.
Observes Malkit Law, a
general practitioner: "People arent enjoying
life any more. Women are only talking about salads,
starvation diets, health farms and anything else that
indicates how much weight they are losing".
One very popular point
of reference is a health farm in Bangalore where
reportedly people are kept alive on gallons of lime
juice. "Once out of the place, they regain their
weight as they go back to their normal eating
habits," says Law.
Twentyseven-year-old
Smita Gupta joined one such health farm barely three
months before her marriage, little realising the risks of
being dangerously below her natural weight. She suffered
two miscarriages and now refuses to conceive again even
as her marriage is in peril.
Says fashion designer
Ravi Bajaj: "Women dont seem to think beyond
their vital statistics. Its good to be aware of
your body, but this obsession towards remaining in shape
has become so unrealistic that they are going overboard
with the fitness thing."
Bajaj is however, happy
that more and more women are fitting into his clothes.
"Ihave always made tailored clothes for slim women.
Now with thinner women around, business is booming.
Everybody wants to "look like that model in that
ad."
"The Indian woman
today has an active lifestyle, healthy eating habits and
is exposed to what is happening in the West," says
Bhardwaj. "Consequently, she is very body-conscious
and even over-weight grandmothers are anxious to get into
shape."
Significantly, for many
lucky young women these days, the genes for hefty hips
and thunder thighs are already getting lost and they are
saved from inheriting mothers legacy. They are the
ones who are prancing about in fashionable hipsters,
skin-tight jeans and long, pencil skirts. MF
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