Think about
it!
THERE once was a little boy who
had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and
told him that every time he lost his temper, he must
hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails
into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to
control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily
gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to
hold his temper than to drive those nails into the
fence...
Finally the day came
when the boy didnt lose his temper at all. He told
his father about it and the father suggested that the boy
now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to
hold his temper.
The days passed and the
young boy was finally able to tell his father that all
the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand
and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done
well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The
fence will never be the same.
When you say things in
anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put
a knife in a man and draw it out. It wont matter
how many times you say Im sorry, the wound is still
there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are a very rare
jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to
succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise,
and they always want to open their hearts to us.
Renu Sharma
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