For better and for verse

A woman of verse and verve. Not only did poetess and writer Kamala Das’ 
works articulate unconventional views and beliefs, but as a woman, too, 
she shattered stereotypes, writes Humra Quraishi

KAMLA Das was one of those poets whose verse and words spread out. Maybe, it’s because of the image she’d built or the unconventional views she aired, not to forget the personal upheaval she’d been through – falling in love with a Muslim doctor and converting to Islam. And, as in the case of most love affairs, the going wasn’t smooth, leaving her forlorn and in deep sorrow. Perhaps, she released much of that pain through her verse, through the stories she gently weaved, through the connectivity she built over the years ...

As K. Satchidanandan, a Malayalam poet, bilingual critic, translator and former secretary of the Sahitya Akademi, puts it, "As a poet, Kamala was a pioneer: She took Indian poetry in English far ahead of her women predecessors, like Toru Dutt and Sarojini Naidu, giving it a new feminine charm, a confessional quality and, yes, a political slant. She always identified with the downtrodden, the maidservants, the so-called lower caste helpless women exploited by landlords. Her poems on the anti-Sikh riots in Delhi and on the plight of Tamils in Sri Lanka are powerful indictments of the ethnic hatred and genocide of our times.

"While she was different from her women predecessors, she was also different from her male contemporaries, like A. K. Ramanujan, Keki Daruwalla, Nizim Ezekiel and others, as she brought a distinct emotional quality to Indian English poetry by weaving her poems around women’s bodily desires and a spiritual love`A0in the tradition of Mirabai, that only women can articulate and fully expressed in her poems on Krishna as well as on Allah in her collection Ya Allah! No wonder, she became a role model for almost all Indian English women poets who rose to fame later, like Eunice D’Souza, Charmagne D’Souza, Rukmini Bhaya Nair and Imtiaz Dharker and younger ones like Priya Sarukai Chhabria and Arundhati Subramaniam, despite the differences in style.

"As a short story writer in Malayalam, she went ahead of her predecessors like Lalitambika Antarjanam and K. Saraswati Amma in terms of sensibility as well as idiom. She brought the short story close to the lyrical, infusing narrative situations with a`A0luminous poetic quality and building her stories around images rather than events. Her stories were more expressions of the inner drama of the modern man’s (and woman’s) conflict-ridden and asphyxiated mind, closer to soliloquies than articulations of the outer drama of historical and social events. She easily crossed over from one genre to another; many of her poems have a narrative quality, while many of her stories are almost like poems.

"Her autobiography My Story , which she kept revising all through her later years and kept the readers guessing as to whether all those love affairs were real or imagined, is one of the most lyrical and heart-rending memoirs ever written in India. Kamala will be remembered for long for having championed a breakthrough in the way we perceive human reality."

Perhaps what had got her close, almost face to face with the reader, was the simplicity of her verse. There were no complex weaves or that stumbling interplay of high-sounding words. All very direct. All very touching. As novelist and short story writer Shinie Antony, who also hails from Kerala, comments, "Impulses, insecurities, loving too much, not being loved enough, love past fantasy, love`85 all nitpicked by Kamala Das in an almost spiritual manner. As in her short fiction, Das was able to carry a sensitive and lyrical sense of the self in her poetry. For instance, she concludes the poem "The Looking Glass" with such pathos that it is difficult not to identify with that level of pain. She says: ‘Oh yes getting/ A man to love is easy but living/ without him afterwards may have to be/ Faced a living without life when you move/ Around meeting strangers`85’ Emotional truisms applicable for a long, long time."

But who exactly was Kamala Das?

If you sit back and ask yourself that under all those layers and heaps of words where lay the real Kamala Das, conflicting views emerge.

H. K. Kaul, poet and secretary-general of the Poetry Society of India, had this to offload about her, " Though I had met Kamala Das at the India International Centre on some occasions, there was no special interaction `85you could say our meetings were without much interaction. So, I will not be able to comment much except that to me, her behaviour didn’t seem quite normal. Can’t elaborate on this but it seemed she wasn’t at peace with herself. This could be because of several factors or maybe because of internal pressures and turmoil... ."

But Satchidanandan puts her on a pedestal: " Kamala Das (Kamala Surayya in her last few years and dear Madhavikkutty for the Malayalees) was an exemplary new woman in many ways: she was bold, uninhibited, full of creative energy that she sustained to the very end, as is proven by her last few poems in Closure, and secular enough to try another religion in the last days of her life and`A0declare she had Krishna in her intact still. Her burial in the mosque at Thiruvananthapuram was a great lesson to those with insular minds: people of all religions congregated there to pay their last homage to a writer they adored, a feat few secularist campaigners have managed to achieve... ."

 

Inside story

Documentary filmmaker, publisher and poet, Suresh Kohli, had known Kamala Das and her family from way back in the 1960s. He had also co-authored with Kamala Das the volume Closure (HarperCollins), which dwells on her verse.

Suresh Kohli, who had known Kamala Das and her family since the 1960s, seen with the poetess in her later days
Suresh Kohli, who had known Kamala Das and her family since the 1960s, seen with the poetess in her later days
Photos courtesy: Suresh Kohli

Excerpts from an interview:

Let’s begin with the obvious query: how did you get to know Kamala Das?

It was around 1967 - 68 that I’d done a review of her poetry volume, Summer In Calcutta, for a publication Thought. I think it was her first collection of poems in English. Anyway, after it was published I had gone to Mumbai and its there that I’d first met her `85 those days she was residing in Mumbai with her three sons and husband, who was working for the Reserve Bank of India.

How easy or difficult was it to actually meet her?

Those were different days when life was easy and there was no such celebrity tamasha as it exists today. I met her directly though I did know several of her friends like Pritish Nandy. But, as I have just mentioned, those were different days and it wasn’t difficult to walk into her home ...

Did you walk into her life too?

It was a platonic friendship with her. In fact, over the years, I had become close to her three sons, and her husband Madhva Das. It was a simple household. They were teetotalers and vegetarians, though when I visited they’d arrange whisky for me

Closure hit the stands several months after demise. Did she know it was in the making?

Of course, we had been in touch throughout ... in 2008, she had signed the contract for this volume Closure, but she died some months before it hit the stands `85And to shortly hit the stands will be a collection of her short stories, The Kept Woman and Other Stories (Om Publishers)

What about those stories in circulation about her rather unconventional lifestyle?

As I have just mentioned, she was a family sort of a person and doted on her children `85 But then, its the way she wrote about her form, herself, her life and together with that, she also had the tendency to make up stories to sensationalise ...

With that in the foreground or backdrop, is the ‘story’ about her conversion to Islam true or made up?

That’s true ... she did convert to Islam and was buried in her home state. In fact, after her husband’s death she had fallen in love with a Muslim doctor who was treating her ... The doctor was already married and as I far as I could make out, it was a one-sided love affair from her side ... And when that doctor left her, she was very upset.

What did you think of the new man in her life – the doctor. Also, what did you think of the conversion?

Never met that doctor, though on one of my visits to Kochi, I did tell her that I wanted to meet him, but she brushed it aside in one of her typical ways, saying something to the effect, "He’d be jealous of you `85’ That was her style. Regarding her decision to convert, it was her personal decision. So, what could I say or comment.

And what about all those stories of her wanting to reconvert to Hinduism, when that relationship with the doctor ended?

Yes, she wanted to reconvert, but it’s her children who advised her against it, saying it wouldn’t be wise `85 After her death last year, she was buried in her home state.

What were her biggest qualities that drew people to her?

Her spontaneity, her warmth ... in fact, in that very first meeting with her, what drew me to her was her spontaneity and warmth. — HQ





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