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Pause. Stop. Reflect EXCELLING in your job, beating a strong rival at sports, climbing the ladder of efficiency in various walks of life, makes you high-strung person. In such circumstances, the full vigour of the mind is deployed. This involves tautening of the nerves. You may say that there is nothing wrong in it. Yes. Up to a point. Like a rubber band, when stretched too far, it breaks. Instead of increasing efficiency, it may lead to the breakdown of efficiency. Efficiency can be overdone. It may go out of bounds and defeat your purpose. This means less of it, in place of more of it. Such pressure will result in fatigue. When you are tense, even a pleasant job becomes a strain and an ordinary effort appears an extra-ordinary effort: Worse, this tension
becomes a habit which upsets the rhythm of life in various spheres. The
most affected are the human relationships, especially love matters, work
conditions and productive ones. This attitude makes one a worrier who
worries even when there is nothing to worry about: This is
over-stretching of the nervous system which throws the mechanism (of
body and mind) out of gear. |
Just as nerves carry messages from the brain to the muscles, nerves also carry messages from the muscles to the brain. In other words, the body can teach the mind to relax. Here’s an example: You confront something that makes you feel sharp, jerky and your heart bolts like a colt. Now, if you slow down, count 10 slowly, the jumpy reaction slows down. Try it. You are so enclosed in your tension and anxiety like barbed wire that what you really want is not known to you. Some unexpressed desire keeps on gnawing at your mind. Get on its track and pin it down. You strive to put the last bit of your energy to achieve perfection, though praiseworthy, leads to tension. You gear yourself to a constant state of unease because you feel you are not doing enough. When you feel you cannot cope, the best thing is to escape. It is no use inflicting punishment upon yourself. In order to escape, it’s not necessary to go to a foreign land. Go for some off-beat activity like viewing the stars at night, give free play to your imagination by listening to classic music. Visit the pavement book-seller. It can turn out to rewarding beyond imagination. Take steps to cultivate the reading habit. There are lots of books that entertain and instruct. Do away with the notion that every serious book is loaded with unintelligible philosophy. There are thrills in store for any one who cares to look into the world of the printed word: Widen the range of personal pursuits which absorb your off-work hours. Choose such activities as can absorb you with delight. Do not consider yourself too old for music, painting or drawing. Write a short article (or a letter to the editor) of your newspaper or magazine. It might bring you a cheque. Tranquillity of mind is essential to assuage jumpy nerves. This can be achieved by training the mind to turn away from the harsh and the unpleasant to the sweet, and the soothing by conjuring up pictures of beauty, lush greenery and by reading serene scriptures. Tension consumes so much energy that it
can make you a wreck. Try this test. Knit your brows as you do when
tense. How long can you do that? It shows how unnatural and uneasy it is
to remain in this state. |