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A Quaker who joined freedom
struggle
by
Randeep Wadehra
An American
in Khadi by Asha Sharma. Penguin, New Delhi.
Pages xii + 426. Rs 395.
HERE is a riddle for you:
who was the only non-Indian to sign the Congress
manifesto in 1921 calling upon Indians to quit
government service? Stumped? OK, here is a clue.
That man was a Quaker and the only American to be
jailed for actively participating in Indias
freedom struggle. He had earned the ire of the
British colonial rulers for his articles in The
Tribune, which were deemed to "spread
sedition". Pass?
Another clue: he almost
single-handedly turned Himachal Pradesh into the
apple state of India. Yes!!! You are right. He is
Samuel Evans Stokes, Indianised as Satyanand
Stokes.
Not many people
outside Himachal Pradesh know about this American
who contributed so much to the Indian nation. He
was an idealist, rebel, visionary, social
reformer, ascetic and political worker a
heady mix indeed. At a time when the golden
jubilee of our Constitution is being celebrated
and the names of many great Indians are being
recollected, Satyanand Stokes has been ignored.
He was the only American and one among the few
westerners to serve the Indian cause with a great
sense of dedication.
Samuel Evans
Stokes set out for India from Philadelphia on
January 9, 1904, much against his parents
wishes. He had not completed his education, nor
acquired any professional skill. He also let go
of the opportunity to run the Stokes and Parish
Machine Company set up by his father and a
reputed manufacturer of elevators.
The 21-year-old
lad had no idea about the duration of his stay in
India but his aim was clear: to serve in the
leprosy home run by Dr Marcus Carleton at
Subathu. Little did he realise then that his life
was about to be transformed beyond his wildest
imagination.
At Subathu he
showed that serving the sick was his forte. He
put in much time and effort learning the local
language. Though he had visited the leprosy homes
run by Christian missionaries at Taran Tarn and
Kotgarh, he felt happy leading a simple life
amongst the villagers at Subathu. He was much
enchanted by the "wondrous splendour"
of the Himalayas.
Soon he decided
to stay permanently in India. Despite his
Christian upbringing and the good work that the
missionaries were doing, Samuel developed an
aversion for organised work. He wanted to serve
the humanity by staying out of the organisational
structure of the Church.
Refusing to be
enticed by the trappings of a white mans
sojourn in the colonised India, Stokes
consciously tried to befriend the locals who,
while greeting him warmly, preferred to keep a
deferential distance.
He decided to
lead a spartan life as exemplified by St Francis
of Assisi. In his quest for relationship on equal
terms with the Indians, he changed his food
habits as well as his "bada sahib"
habiliment. The 1905 earthquake in Kangra saw
Stokes at his best as a genuine servant of
humanity.
Though appointed
by the government to distribute money and other
assistance among the quake affected, Stokes
refused to use the government funds. Instead he
used his own savings for the purpose. Though he
learnt what a thankless job it was, he did not
regret completing it. The rigours of his work
took their toll. He became severely ill.
After
recovering, ignoring his well wishers
advice, he stayed on in India. A small village
near Kotgarh became his "karma bhoomi".
He gave away all his belongings to lead as
ascetic life. this astonished the locals. Soon
the story of a saib becoming a sadhu spread far
and wide attracting visitrs who paid homage to
his courage and fortitude. A wealthy orthodox
Brahmin remarked, "Now, you are one of
us." However he had to flee when a local
Rajput lad, Dhan Singh, declared his intention to
become a Christian. Stokes took him away to the
plains.
Though his
attempts to convert Brahmins and Rajputs in
Punjab earned Stokes the ire of the Arya
Samajists, he had the advantage of being a sadhu
a status that overshadowed the fact of he
being a Christian. He was able to befriend them
as well as the villagers by his selfless service
and love.
When plague hit
the region in 1907 Stokes worked among the
affected and earned their respect. Soon he
overcame his prejudices against Indians and
discovered many virtues in the way of life of the
locals. His interaction with the Arya Samaj gave
him first hand experience of the running of
gurukuls at Hardwar. This inspired him to
establish a Christian school at Kotgarh. This
should be an eye-opener to those who never tire
of running down traditional Indian institutions.
Apart from
serving the poor, the lepers and victims of
epidemics, Stokes made immense contribution in
the field of education by fusing the Indian and
western systems. It was not easy for him, as, on
the one hand, he had to deal with local
prejudices and, on the other, with a
not-so-cooperative government machinery.
True to his
rebel genes, he decided to leave the
"Brotherhood of Imitation of Jesus" and
settled down as an ordinary householder after
marrying a local "pahari" girl. Another
reason was his unease with the Indian attitude
towards the code of living. They believed that a
normal householder cannot live up to the exacting
standards set for a sadhu, even when such
standards of conduct are deemed as most
desirable. He wanted to cut through the double
standards practised by the locals by setting a
personal example. He was also disappointed with
the racist practices of missionaries.
Thus he
declared: " I shall as far as in me lies
become an Indian, marry an Indian girl and, if
God gives me sons and daughters, bring them up
absolutely as Indians in the matter of life,
language, dress and education. I shall try to
make my home life, in all aspects, a gospel of
what Indian home life should be..." He
married a first generation Rajput Christian girl
named Agnes.
In 1920 he
clashed with the government over the despicable begar
practised by it. Though the British were only
continuing what was being practised by the
various chiefs in the hills, Stokes found it
unjust, exploitative and inhuman. Gandhi gave
unstinted support to the Stokes struggle. In a
message to the people of Simla hill states he
said, "You should continue under the
guidance of Stokes and suspend all kar and
begar to the government and to the
state... In your efforts I am with you with all
my heart and soul."
Soon Stokes got
involved in Indias freedom struggle
as he was inspired by the Gandhi-led freedom
movement. Stokes was convinced that India would
not only become a free nation but also a world
power in due course. After the Congress special
session in 1920 at Calcutta, Stokes wrote a
series of articles in the Bombay Chronicle
entittled "A Study in Non-cooperation".
He declared, " (our) Ultimate goal must be
absolute swaraj..." Stokes became a
full-fledged delegate from Kotgarh to the All
India Congress Committee which met at Nagpur in
1920.
He identified
totally with the Indian aspirations. On July 31,
1921, when foreigners were warned to keep away
from the public burning of imported clothes,
Stokes along with an English nurse attended a
bonfire. Two whites in an ocean of brown humanity
must have been a scene to watch! But one must
admire their courage of conviction for standing
up against the unjust regime that was culturally
supposed to be their own. Stokes started wearing khadi
after that event.
Stokes opposed
the attempts of the moderate Indian leaders
who had split from the Congress to
accord a welcome to the Prince of Wales on his
visit in November, 1921. He considered it foolish
and unmanly for Indians to treat the Prince as
their own. The British government was
particularly wary of the Punjab city of Lahore
where the Congress committee, the Khilafat
committee and various Sikh organisations had
united in holding anti-government demonstrations
to protest against the Princes visit there
in February. Stokes was the first PPCC member to
be detained on December 3 under Section 108 of
the CrPC.
Stokes
trial was covered in great detail by The Tribune.
He was eventually sentenced to six months in
jail. The Tribune denounced the sentence on
Stokes as a "grievous failure of
justice".
This is what
Gandhi had to say in an article in Young India on
Stokes arrest, "This is a unique move
on the part of the government. Mr Stokes is an
American who has naturalised himself as a British
subject who has made India his home in a manner
in which perhaps no other American or Englishman
has... But that he should feel with and like an
Indian, share his sorrows and throw himself into
the struggle, has proved too much for the
government. To leave him free to criticise the
government was intolerable, so his white skin has
proved no protection for him..."
Elsewhere,
Gandhi remarks: "As long as we have an
Andrews, a Stokes, a Pearson in our midst, so
long it will be ungentlemanly on our part to wish
every Englishman out of India. Non-cooperators
worship Andrews, honour Stokes."
In this
excellent biography by Asha Sharma I have
personally liked the chapter, "Debates with
Gandhi: Test of friendship". This chapter
shows how Stokes respected Gandhi and yet did not
hesitate to air his views even if they were
contrary to those of the Mahatma. For example,
Stokes did not accept the idea of compulsory
spinning as the sine qua non of
participation in the Congress. Well, the two karma
yogis might have had their differences yet
they remained friends.
Another chapter
that I would like to commend to the readers
attention is, "Came to teach and stayed to
learn". It portrays the evolution of Stokes
as a thinker. Over a period of time he became
increasingly interested in Hindu philosophy.
Inspired by the
Arya Samajist assertion that "the soul
attains mukti through karma and not
by grace", he studied Swami Dayanand
Saraswatis Satyarth Prakash. He considered
this philosophy valid. Disillusioned by
Christianity as taught and practised in India, he
wanted the Church to be imbued with the Indian
ethos, independent of the western worldview.
Since this volume does not mention whether Stokes
was aware of the fact that Christianity had
gained roots in the South, especially Kerala,
centuries before the West was Christianised, one
can say that the wholly Indian Church was already
in existence even before the first European set
foot on our soil.
There were many
Christian precepts and practices with which
Stokes did not agree. In Hinduism he found the
validation of his rejection of the Christian idea
of eternal punishment. His belief in universal
salvation, transmigration of the soul and the
non-existence of sin as a power in opposition to
holiness show him closer to the Vedantic
philosophy. In the Hindu scriptures he found
"not so much in the actual solutions arrived
at, as in the general tendency of thought and
method of approach, the key to much that the
Christian religion, as evolved in the West, has
never attempted to explain, or about which its
teachings have been frankly agnostic."
Though Stokes
remained true to the Christian canon, he showed
courage of conviction when he freely admitted,
"The light from the Hindu scriptures had
come to fill the gaps in Christianity."
Here it will not
be impertinent to mention that Stokes and The
Tribune had developed a sort of symbiotic
relationship. Several of his anti-British
articles like "Oppression in the Simla
Hills" (November 24, 1921) were published in
the paper. His political as well as social
activities were duly covered too. Asha Sharma,
the author of the biography under review, has
used the papers files to write this
meticulously documented volume on one of the
undeservingly ignored leaders of Indias
freedom struggle.
Since the book
under review is about an American who came as a
missionary, one expects something non-scholarly.
But mercifully one does not encounter another Dr
Aziz or Chandrapore with its heaps of rubbish as
in EM Forsters novel "A Passage to
India", nor is it a wide-eyed
autobiograhical account of the sensations
experienced by Nirad C. Chaudhuri during his
first visit to England and recounted in his
"A Passage to England". It certainly
does not remanticise the exotic as the two former
works do in their respective genres.
Often when one
writes about ones kin or ancestor
objectivity suffers. Asha Sharma, who is Samuel
Evans Stokes granddaughter, has avoided
this pitfall. It is indeed a tribute to her
erudition and integrity that she has presented
the facts as they were. Its detached manner
reminds one of S. Gopals biography of his
father S. Radhakrishnan.
However, one
wonders why other historians or research scholars
did not take up this subject for publication.
Have we already reached a stage where a great
personality languishes in the shadows if he or
she has no descendant with intellectual
propensities?
If you are
wondering how, when and why Samuel Evans Stokes
came to be known as Satyanand Stokes. Well, for
the answer, you will have to read this
meticulously chronicled biography of our freedom
struggles unsung hero, which puts into
perspective persons, places and events related to
a crucial phase of Indias emergence as a
nation.
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Itchy palms that control
levers of power
by
Harbans Singh
Corruption
in India: Agenda for Action edited by S. Guhan
and Samuel Paul. Vision Books, New Delhi. Pages
312.Rs 280.
"THE sinner suffers in his
longing till at at long last overcome by
temptation," wrote the Greek poet Aeschylus,
though in a different context of human failing.
The problem today in India, as in many developing
countries, is that not just temptations have
increased but the citizens are falling prey to
them without letting the suffering to trouble
their soul even momentarily.
The inability,
or the unwillingness, to put up even a semblance
of resistance has been disturbing many meaningful
people and groups. For, they are of the firm
belief that the statement of the late Indira
Gandhi that corruption is a global phenomenon
notwithstanding, the vast majority of the masses
would prefer a life which is less tainted by it.
They believe that there are many people and
groups who are willing to go through the pain
caused by the longing to have a comfortable life
relatively free of wants. This book has emerged
from the efforts of the Public Affairs Centre,
Bangalore, which has examined the cancer of
corruption and has also evolved a strategic
agenda for action.
Without
apportioning all the blame on Indira Gandhi for
giving legitimacy to corruption by treating it in
a cavalier manner, the book looks into the
political and administrative system and the
distortions that have become a part of it, both
as a result of the subversion of the system and
its inherent weakness. As a result, not a little
responsibility lies with politicians whose
policies and deeds, while promising the moon to
the masses, continue to fill the coffers of the
rich and the beneficiaries of their discretion,
and letting the common masses fend for themselves
in a system which has become increasingly the
extended arm of organised mafia.
The various
contributors to the book have put the subjects of
their choice under the microscope and suggested
how to improve, change or strengthen the system.
However, while delineating their chosen subject,
the authors seem to have collectively forgotten
an important aspect of corruption. The better
governed societies too are occasionally victims
of corruption but it is the response of society
which insulates it from too much damage; and,
rarely does corruption affect the man in the
street.
It is not that
Indian society was never affected by corruption
and therefore no social response was evolved. In
fact, till the sixties society was by and large
capable of isolating the corrupt by not according
a respectable place. But ever since the
nationalisation of banks, the social response has
collapsed. With the money of the banks becoming
easily available even to that section of society
which would otherwise have entered a bank with
fear, it tempted the resourceful and the
deceitful to defraud public money, secure in the
belief that they would neither be caught nor
punished.
The recent row
between the CII and the bank employees unions has
exposed the underbelly of the Indian business.
There cannot be two opinions on the need to have
less bureaucratic controls on entrepreneurship,
but then entrepreneurs too need to be respectful
of public trust when they avail of public money.
It would be unrealistic to lay all the blame on
the rules and regulations about loans; an
unscrupulous businessman would always dangle
temptations to corrupt others. Therefore, what is
also needed is an effective and speedy judicial
system which punishes the culprit. The stand-off
between the CII and the bank employees has
demonstrated what can be achieved by a public
outcry as a mere threat of exposure of the
defaulting businessmen has forced the CII to run
for cover and retract its recommendations to the
government.
We also seem to
be obsessed with the nature of our political
system. No system can be foolproof, and
corruption can cause turmoil among the best of
people. The disgrace and punishment of public
figures in Japan has not ensured a
corruption-free polity. It is, once again, the
public response to it that is vital to clean
public life. The intensity of the response sets
societies apart. We, unfortunately have been less
than intense. Moreover there is a propensity to
politicise issues and hence truth gets blurred
when accusations, often manufactured, start
flying in all directions.
The book might
appear inadequate in the face of the fact that
corruption has perhaps grown too big to be
tackled by the thoughts of well-meaning citizens.
For, though the book deals with the various
aspects, for some strange reason it fails to take
notice of the crumbling judicial system. This
alone, more than any other measure, strengthens
the faith of the common man in the system. Three
illustrations of the immediate past bring out the
urgency to deal with the decay.
The acquittal of
the accused in the Priyadarshini Mattoo rape and
murder case, the Jain Hawala case and the blatant
use of money power in the infamous BMW case has
destroyed the confidence of the common man and
the weak citizen. These cases also demonstrate
what can happen to a society which refuses to
deal with corruption at the outset.
There is hope
yet. For the outcry against them has been
deafening, and as long as there are people and
groups trying to work out agendas, however
limited, against corruption, the people can be
sure that a leadership is being built to combat
the menace.
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Not being fair to fair
sex
by
M.L. Sharma
Womens
Studies in India by L. Thara Bhai. APH
Publishing, New Delhi. Pages 232 +xii. Rs 400.
THE book under review is a
research work on the various facets of the theme.
The author has refined the concept and the
methodology of this academic pursuit. Interest in
women studies in India arose in the 19th century
itself when social reformers began to grapple
with growing inequalities and other evil social
customs. In the forefront were Gandhi, Nehru,
C.R. Das, Netaji and a galaxy of liberals.
The UN General
Assembly declared 1975 as Womens Year. An
International Womens Conference was
organised in Mexico, which adopted a world action
plan for the empowerment of women at large. This
added momentum to womens movement and
gradually the cause became dear to social
activists.
Women studies as
an academic discipline began in the same year,
1975, although in the initial years there was lot
of confusion over its scope. The uplift of women
was equated with educational and job
opportunities and never with equality. The first
national conference of womens studies held
in Mumbai decided to form an association to
promote the cause of women and appealed to
universities to include the subject in their
curriculum. But still a lot remains to be done in
this direction.
Mother Teresa
Womens University, Kodaikanal, is a model
where all efforts and resources are devoted to
women studies. While the work at this university
is definitive, others continue to be confused
about the scope of such studies. The focus has
been shifting from one area to another.
The author lists
nine issues of significance for such studies.
They are (a) status or position of women in
society; (b) career or work as contrasted with
occupational roles; (c) equality or inequality;
(d) power and authority; (e) sexism; (f)
feminism; (g) sex role stereotypes; (h) network;
and (i) marriage and sexuality.
Dr Thara makes
it clear that marriage is to be highlighted in
such studies as a married girls role
undergoes a big change. "When man gains from
marriage women loses in marriage as far as
material, physical and psychological relations
are concerned irrespective of the socio-economic
background of girls."
She laments that
womens authority is never recognised, as
equality is meaningless in the absence of this
recognition. "Biological differences of
women," she believes, "are
conventionally utilised to explain the
discrimination in social fields, thereby
legitimising and institutionalising inequality of
women." While pursuing women studies it
should be kept in mind that the perspective of
different religious laws is at variance with each
other. The author is happy that the new economic
policy has facilitated investment in India and
many women have become self-employed or have set
up technology-driven units.
The book is a
significant contribution to the direction to
womens studies.
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A Karma Yogi
Politician by M.G. Chitkara. APH Publishing, New
Delhi. Pages 238 + xxiiiRs 500.
This book
recounts the main events in the life of the late
K.L. Sharma, a BJP front rank leader. The author
says the late leader was free from narrow
parochialism and bigotry. Although he wielded
considerable influence as an active member of the
ruling alliance (having been vice-president of
the BJP in 1991-92 and 1995), he was a self-less
worker, and never hankered for power and
position.
The author
describes the former Sangh pracharak, who died
recently, as a "karma yogi" because
"he practised humility by being neither
self-assertive nor too talkative and boastful. A
leader is best when people are hardly aware of
his existence, not so good when they eulogise
him, less good when they fear him and worst when
they are contemptuous of him". Sharma was a
Hindi poet and his poem "Veh kali
raat", written in the wake of the emergency,
is a piece of literature. He wanted the people in
the new millennium to "excel
excellence" in all fields. He opposed
economic power going to a few people.
There is a most
useful suggestion by Sharma that future capital
cities should be administrative centres and no
other activity unrelated to the administration
should come up. At present new settlements and
industrial areas surround the administrative
capital cities adding to congestion, pollution
and other problems.
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Many loose ends in
security set-up
by
Gurdarshan Singh Dhillon
Society,
State and Security: The Indian Experience by
Verghese Koithara. Sage Publications, New Delhi.
Pages 414. Rs 550.
THE book under review is a
maiden attempt by Vice Admiral Verghese Koithara,
who retired from the Indian Navy in 1998. The
author has had two stints with the Defence
Planning Staff and has a Ph.D degree in political
science. The book, written in a critical vein,
makes no effort to unnecessarily boost national
self-esteem. It examines the problem of security
in India, external as well as internal. It turns
the spolight on our weaknesses and failings and
the need to overcome them in the light of past
experience.
Can there be a
dichotomy between national and human security?
How can Indian nationalism be strengthened? What
factors can help India to become a great power in
the international arena? Can India aspire for
external influence without achieving internal
peace? Can India achieve and sustain a high
economic growth rate without improving the lot of
its masses in terms of education and health? Can
India acquire global clout without becoming a
military power of consequence? How can India
emerge as a modern society in the true sense? How
can the security of the country and its people be
enhanced? How can human rights and national
security needs be reconciled? How can India
confront the challenges of the coming decade, the
first of the new millennium?
The author seeks
an enlightened answer to all these crucial
issues. He believes that state security is
inextricably linked with human security and there
can be no dichotomy between the two. In an
enlightened state, the concept of security must
be linked with the welfare of the masses. But
unfortunately in India the articulation of human
security needs are linked only with the
aspirations and fears of the elite and not with
the well-being of Indians at large. National
security must lead to broad-based human welfare
and not just upper class-oriented prosperity.
The term
security, according to the writer, means much
more than territorial integrity and the
preservation of sovereignty. He stresses the
importance of economic and social well-being
where both the state and the individual tread a
shared path.
The book traces
the development of the Indian state and its
security concerns during the first 50 years of
independence. The author holds the view that in
terms of Indias future security, the low
levels of human development, the low rate of
economic growth, the failure to broadbase
technology and the worsening of Hindu-Muslim
relations, all flash dangerous signals.
A good appraisal
is made of Indias nonalignment policy and
the handling of relations with the West, Russia,
China, Pakistan and other South Asian countries.
The author laments that the direction and
execution of Indias external security
efforts have not been up to the mark. There has
been no analytical history of any of the four
major wars fought by India since independence.
Pervasive secrecy and national ego make serious
and sincere stock-taking difficult. No honest and
objective analysis of the 1962 war, which
tarnished Indias standing globally, has
been made. This, in fact, is equally applicable
to the other wars. Image-building by the
propaganda media often hampers an objective
assessment. That is why the country does not
learn a lesson for the future.
The author is
highly critical of the role of the Indian state
in the management of internal security. The state
with a poor world-view has not been able to
foster a peaceful and participatory political
environment in the country by promoting
appropriate economic and social changes. Indian
nationalism has been used as a means to
manipulate the masses. Failure of the state to
address the root causes, arbitrary and excessive
use of force, poor quality of intelligence,
frequent enactment of stringent laws, usurpation
of the powers of the states by the Centre,
political chicanery and self-righteousness on the
part of Indian leadership are some of the factors
that are jeopardising the internal security of
the country.
The author
admonishes politicians and administrators of the
country for their poor handling of the situation
in Assam, Punjab and Kashmir. His comments on the
internal emergency are noteworthy. The author
also makes a comparative study of the way
national and human security affairs have been
managed by India, China and Indonesia. All three
countries have had to use force periodically
within the country, but in China and Indonesia
its frequency and duration have been much less
thanks to more tactful handling.
The book
explores the emerging global scenario in which
India has to deal with crucial security issues
during the first decade of the new millennium.
Among the latent dangers faced by the country are
economic and technological mismanagement,
improverished, enfeebled, segmented and estranged
society, energy and food crises, environmental
decline and weakened democracy.
To guard against
military dangers, the author stresses the need to
evolve a new and substantial military programme,
which includes the need to increase Indias
nuclear capability. This programme can be evolved
through a more pragmatic approach which requires
a coordinated functioning of political leaders,
military officers and civil servants. Lack of
good decision-making has been the bane of Indian
policy.
The book is of
abiding interest to politicians, academicians,
policy makers, defence personnel and all those
engaged in the management of countrys
internal and external security. It makes the
reader wake up to contemporary milieu and enables
him to gain new perspectives on complex security
issues in the politico-military and
socio-economic dimensions. It must come as an
eye-opener for the ruling elite.
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Service to succeed
by
Chandra Mohan
Discovering
the Soul of Service by Leonard L. Berry. Free
Press, New York. Pages 247. Rs 880.
SERVICE companies sell a
promise easy to keep for a five- man single
location operation, even if labour-intensive. The
real challenge comes in sustaining the
entrepreneurial spirit of the young, small
company in growth. Severity multiplies when (a)
growth is rapid and (b) it runs into price
competition.
The world is
awash with companies which started with fanfare,
performed superbly for a short while, but died
young in a sea of red ink.
Berry has
researched that all great service companies share
seven core values.
q Excellence.
They are strong profit-makers, but profit is not
the defining value; it is rather an outcome.
Pursuit of excellence is the defining value.
q Innovation.
Innovation and excellence are inextricably
linked. Changing what exists into something
better is the defining value.
q Joy. Uplifting
human spirit. Bringing human potential into full
flower and celebrating achievement are part of
being successful.
q Teamwork.
Individuals collaboratively pooling their
resources for a common purpose is the normal
style for enriching quality of work life.
q Respect.
Respect for the customer. Respect for the
employee. Respect for suppliers and business
partners. Respect for the community.
qIntegrity.
q Social profit.
Beyond the marketing of goods and services and
creating employment into causes to benefit the
larger community.
All this demands
trust, sensitivity and listening. It means
value-driven leaders who live the values. Leaders
who articulate their dreams and in simple
language which touches peoples hearts. It
means attracting, motivating and retaining
people. It means cultivating leadership qualities
in others in the organisation; inspired
leadership at the point of delivery being of
utmost importance.
The road is
never smooth and easy. Leaders rely on their
values to navigate through the difficult spells,
reminding others in the organisation and at times
their own selves. Their quest for excellence
makes them challenge the status quo even at the
best of times.
For the business
to become and remain successful, the core
strategy must be implemented through an effective
business design and effective execution.
Successful companies effect a good fit between
what and how targeted markets buy and what and
how to sell. Listening to customers and with
singular focus on them, they constantly innovate,
often leading market change.
Their systems
are flexible. Teams are trained to jump into
other roles to handle the inevitable fluctuating
work-loads.
Such companies
invariably face competition, yet in real sense
they compete hardest against themselves. Their
strength lies in their trust in themselves and
their team. Trust is the glue binding them
together. They share information, for employees
feel most vulnerable when they lack information.
Fairness and family honour dictate their actions.
They organise continuous learning to ensure
growth from within.
It is through
generosity and sharing that leaders build the
brand equity of their companies.
Berry has drawn
excellent inferences from the experience of the
most successful service companies to guide other
aspirants into the service sector, which is
certain to dominate the new millennium.
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A bridge cult
extraordinary
by
H.P. Sah
A
Sufi Galaxy by S.L. Gajwani. H.M. Damodar
Publications, Ulhas Nagar. Pages 316. Rs 250.
SUFISM is not startlingly
new for India. The tradition of spiritualism
which cohesively unifies the non-dualism of
Vedanta and the Islamic attitude of total
surrender before God has also helped in keeping
alive the assimilative culture of India.
Yet most people dont know
much about this tradition and its saints beyond a
few names like Mansoor and Sharmad. People have
very little knowledge about the life and Sadhana
of those Sufi saints who spread the message
of love and abhed in villages and small
towns of this land.
"A Sufi
Galaxy" presents an insightful account of
the life and teaching of Qutab Ali Shah and other
saints of the Jahaniyan lineage of Sufism. It
helps expand our knowledge in this direction.
Sufism was brought by Syed Jalal-ud-Din from
Bukhara in Uzbekistan to Sindh and parts of
Punjab (now in Pakistan) and reached even
Maharashtra. It has the potential to break even
the false boundaries raised by the partition of
the country.
There is a
dichotomy of plurality and homogienity whenever
we try to understand religion merely at the
conceptual level. Whether we take a realistic
view or an idealistic one, it does not make much
difference. In one approach, plurality is
over-emphasised and oneness is ignored and in
another, oneness is over-emphasised and plurality
is reduced to an illusion. Both cannot be
respected equally and the conceptual attempts at
synthesis fails miserably.
Realists are
happy with their understanding of religion as a
set of customs, rituals and institutions and
grant some space to the oneness of the experience
of the divine in the name of social welfare.
Idealists, on the other hand, fascinated by their
own variety of transcendental insights, despise
the realists who, they think, are befuddled by
the plurality of the phenomenal world, and preach
the essential unity of religions.
Sufism
the sadhna of love which lets the head be
guided by the heart, gets over the conceptual
dilemma in the realisation of the non-duality of
self and the Absolute without disturbing the
valuable diversity of religious faiths. This
mystical feature of Sufism is heavily underlined
in "A Sufi Galaxy".
Complete
dissolution (fanai) of ego is a necessary
condition of Sufi sadhna. Only by
accomplishing this arduous task, a yogi (this
word is frequently used by the Sufis too) attains
the eternal and absolute identity of his being
which usually manifests itself in the
proclamation of An-al-haq (I am the
Absolute). It is the speciality of the Sufis of
the Jahaniyan stream that they make all efforts
to hide the majestic realisation in the humility
of their behaviour and never make such a
proclamation in public.
To remain humble
and not to disclose the divine qualities is the
way of life of every saint of this lineage which
begins with Qutab Ali Shah and continues till
this date, and which is also strictly followed in
its subcurrent represented by Rochal Das and his
successors.
To talk about
the unity of religions is easy; to practise it is
very difficult. At times even a preceptor has to
pass through this difficulty when the holy
attitude of equal respect for different religious
faiths comes in the way to guide and help his
disciples on their inward journey.
This difficulty
may prove to be devastating like a black hole
which totally absorbs the light rays (of
self-realisation) coming in its proximity. But as
in the cosmos, dangerous black holes are present.
In "A Sufi Glaxy" also the presence of
few such spots cannot be denied.
Hadi Bakhsh once
in the early phase of his life passed through
this trouble. The episode of his successfully
coming out of the dilemma through the vision of
Prophet Mohammed instructing him to do the japa
of a shloka from the Bhagvad Gita and
again in a similar vision Lord Krishna
instructing him to do japa of an ayat
of the Holy Quran attests to the need for an
inter-cultural exchange at a higher level of
consciousness to achieve the sentiment of equal
respect for various religious faiths.
The problem
faced by Hadi Bakhsh is more serious than that of
a politician who swears by his respect for all
religions and, therefore, claims a solution to
the communal problem. But the problem is of great
importance for anyone who thinks over it deeply.
However, by
giving a detailed account of this event the
author has helped in getting a close look at the
human face of a great Sufi saint, which is
generally over-mystified by the disciples and
tradition.
The book also
describes briefly the initiation and method of sadhna
of every saint of the Jahaniyan lineage along
with their short biographies. Pranayam and
dhyan, alongwith namjapa in every
breath seem to be the integral sadhna of
the followers of this path. The author has
effectively highlighted this aspect of Sufism.
A saint is like
a lamp who spreads light of spiritualism and love
around him. When the work of such a saint is
over, he lights another lamp before his flame is
lost in eternity so that light is kept flowing.
But it is not only a unilinear progress. Many
other lamps also get lit and they all
independently begin to spread light at different
places. New streams of light are, thus, born to
benefit the folks living at different parts of
the land.
A new sub-stream
of Jahaniyan Sufism began with Bhai Gobindram
Sahib who got enlightenment under the guidance of
Qutab Ali Shah. This stream continued in Rochal
Das and then in R.M. Hari who eventually brought
it to India after the partition of the country.
It is still helping the seekers in the small town
of Ulhas Nagar near Mumbai in Maharashtra where
the successor of Hari is spreading his message
till this date.
The author has
written the book mainly in a descriptive style to
save the common reader from the burden of heavy
spiritual doctrines. However, the philosophical
background of Sufism is not totally skipped over.
In his simple style the author has presented the
life sketches of Rachal Das and Hari in such an
interesting manner that the philosophical
framework of Sufism and Vedanta becomes clearly
visible.
In the teaching
of Rachal Das, the philosophical understanding of
ishq (love) has got a special place. He
has explained the nature of love as the fire
which attracts moths towards it and burns them to
ashes. Love also destroys the ego of a person and
sets him free to acquire a greater identity.
Ishq mazazi
(wordly love) also destroys the ego of the lover
but does not go beyond the psycho-physical
existence of the beloved. Ishq haqiqi (love
for God) frees the lover (the sadhak)
absolutely from his lower identity and merges it
in the infiniteness of the beloved (the
Absolute).
Ishq mazazi
is only an occasion or invitation to attain the
supreme love Ishq haqiqi.
Nature of the
mind, state of consciousness, the concept of jivan
mukta and videh mukta are some of the
important philosophical issues which frequently
figured in Rachal Dass talks.
Hari also
contributed a lot in explaining the
philosophically significant distinction between para
(transcendent) and apara (phenomenal)
knowledge and the importance of dharma, karma,
bhakti and jnan on the path of
spiritual realisation.
Although Sufism
is a path of complete self-surrender, the
proclamation of an-al-haq lures many
egoists to declare themselves as great saints
only to serve some petty ends of wealth or power
or both. To caution the innocent people and the
spiritual seekers against such fake faqirs is one
of the serious responsibilities of a genuine
saint. This responsibility is directly or
indirectly carried out by every saint of
Jahaniyan lineage of Sufism.
In "A Sufi
Galaxy" the author has given the English
rendering of various lyrics composed by Sufi
saints which deal with different subjects of sadhna.
Many of them expose the character of fake
saints who are themselves misguided and misguide
others.
Hadi Bakhsh says
in one of his lyrics: "Outwordly they are
like swans, / But dark like crows they are
within, / They remember God outwardly, / But
their minds are fixed on luxuries.
"Publicity
of ones spiritual endeavour and divine
qualities is no proof of divinity: self sacrifice
alone is the test of saintliness.
"Some
imitate endeavour and piety in public, / Some
announce sacrifices openly in the fields. / But
they alone realise Haq, O miskeen, / Who
sacrifice self and realise the Self."
(Miskeen is
humble and poor, which is the signature word of
Hadi Baksh.)
In fact, by
describing the character of fake saints, a true
saint defines or redefines Sufism in a new
context in a historical perspective and helps in
understanding the sadhna path of love more
closely. In complex human situations and
interrelation the meaning of "poverty"
and "humility" also undergoes some
complex changes and a man of wealth may turn out
to be humble whereas an overtly poor person may
be an egoist. Thus the vocabulary of Sufism needs
to be interpreted and reinterpreted in the
changing scenario. That is why genuine saints
define Sufism again and again and add new
meanings to the old vocabulary.
The lyrics
composed by the saints of the Jahaniyan lineage
are of great significance and value. A large
number of such lyrics is given (in English
rendering) in "A Sufi Glaxy", which
manifest the profound feeling of Ishq-haqiqi of
these Sufi saints. They are an invaluable
heritage not only of Sindhi literature but of any
literature of devotional lyrics.
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Death of a dream
sabhton khatarnak
by
Harjinder Singh
Reckoning
With Dark Times : 75 Poems of Pash translated
from the Punjabi original by Tejwant Singh Gill.
Sahitya Akademi, New Delhi. Pages 126+xxviii. Rs
80.
AT a time when educated
people, especially the privileged among the youth
in this country, are choosing to be blind to
realities, it may seem inappropriate to remember
that years ago, a young poet was killed in broad
daylight. He was killed because he dared to dream
of a world where man would not cause misery to
man; where Nature and the humans will harmonise.
He said it in
muse that the torture by a policemans lathi
is not a thing to fear, what is scary is the
death of dreams. The cessation of dreaming is the
scariest thing for us all. As many of us continue
dreaming, in our dreams comes Pash, the poet of
Punjab who died so young for he dreamed.
Pash has been
known in Indian languages for a long time. Even
when he was alive, his works appeared in
translation in leading Hindi magazines.
Progressive writers and thinkers all over the
country had read something or other by him.
That his work
should also appear in English could not have made
any sense then, because those to whom he mattered
lived in native cultures. Still a number of
translations of individual poems in English
appeared occasionally. Pash himself went across
the seas and naturally must have indulged in
translating his work sometime or other, but no
known translations in English existed in a book
form until this work by Tejwant Singh Gill was
published by the Sahitya Akademi.
For the admirers
of Pash, this is a thing that should have
happened much earlier. Pash was a revolutionary
poet not simply because he shared an ideology of
rapid transformation of our society with radicals
of his time, but also because he went deep into
the world around a word. Prominent among his
contemporaries, he indulged in passionate
dialogues with poets like Amarjeet Chandan and
Amitoz about what poetry means. Together with
them he changed the idiom of Punjabi poetry as it
grew into a shape that it had never before. That
he should be recognised beyond the borders and by
people of all corners of the world is a natural
desire of anyone who has read and admired him.
Tejwant Singh
Gill has selected 75 poems mostly from the three
anthologies that Pash published while living
namely "Loh Katha" (The iron;
1970), "Udd de bajzan magar" (Follow
the flying hawks; 1974), "Sadde sameyan
wich" (In our times; 1974) and a few that
appeared after he died in two anthologies,
"Ladange sathi" (Comrade, we will
fight) and "Vartaman de roobaroo"
(Facing the present). In a fairly comprehensive
20 page introduction Gill introduces Pash the
person, Pash the early poet and Pash the mature
creative writer obsessed with developing new
forms of committed poetry.
Pash
is a nickname that Avtar Singh Sandhu chose for
his indulgence in muse. A true son of the soil, a
fighter against the oppression of the state, he
had the experience of a varied background and
active participation in radical politics. For
those who knew him from close, he remains a
bohemian, a representative of his times and one
ideally suited for legends that live on for later
generations.
A rationalist at
heart, he wrote in prose about the eclipses,
superstitions and sundry other things. In verse,
he grew fast and indulgently. The intensity of
passion that he and his revolutionary comrades
left behind is history that we relive as we find
ourselves amidst the perpetual struggle of those
below to claim a share of the surface.
Certainly Pash,
more than anyone else, deserves to be translated
in English. His works document a reality of our
times and of the years preceding ours. Let it be
known to the world that we are part of the howl
of protest which engulfed the world of the
sixties and seventies. It is in this context
Gills translation acquires significance.
Gills selection is laudable. The 75 poems
he offers are a near Pash omnibus.
Translating
poetry is an extremely difficult task, even if
you have taught it all your life and by and
large, Gill has done an excellent job. Having
said this, one needs to point out that there are
areas where a bit of disappointment awaits the
reader. Pash used free verse (mostly) for what he
had to say was too real to be tied down to meter.
Naturally, a translation of free verse will most
suitably and conveniently be in free verse only.
Gill seems to
attempt a structure here and there that makes
Pash less real than he is. For instance, when
Pash writes "Roz hee ese taran hunda
hai", it simply says; "Everyday this is
what happens". Gill twists it to "This
is what daily does happen"; it seems more
convoluted than the original. Sometimes, the
translator seems to be culturally too remote from
a English-speaking environment (which he is), as
in the lines: "Daily dutiful daughters/ Bury
in wet dung/ The fire of their virginity."
One ought to do better than that.
Occasionally, in
literal translation, presumably to retain
whatever structure already existed, the power of
the original is lost. Take the title
Loh Katha for instance.
Katha is a complex word that has almost the same
meaning as tale. Gills translation (in his
introduction) reduces it to "irons
tale". It leaves one dissatisfied and
restless.
Pash, like most
poets, in his early years was louder than later
in depicting the agonies and struggles of
ordinary people. This "vyatha" of the
struggling masses and their rising together is
more than a tale and is also part of the
"katha". In a sense, Gill is a bit old
fashioned and he may be using "tale" in
a Dickensian context. The first 25 poems in
Gills selection are from "Loh
Katha". The next 24 are from "Udd de
bajzan magar".
The best of Pash
is in the poems that appeared in the later years,
the eighties. In "Application for
disinheritence", he challenges the
communalised consciousness of the national
mainstream in a loud and clear voice: "If
the whole country mourns the death of one/
Against whom I thought and wrote all my life;/
Then my name off its register do strike (strike
off my name from its directory)." This poem,
in spite of its loud rhetoric, is one of his best
works in its form and aesthetics.
Similarly in
"Most ominous", a poem that is perhaps
one of his most used work and perhaps translated
in most languages of the world, he reaches his
peak in craft: "Most ominous is the moon /
That after each killing / Rises in courtyard
muffled in silence/ But does not rancour like
peppers in the eyes." Gill comments in his
introduction on the changing forms in Pashs
later poetry and his response to post-modern
trends.
The choice of
the word "ominous" for
"khatarnak" is too simplistic. It is
also difficult to find a better alternative. When
Pash says that the death (or dying) of dreams is
"sabhton khatarnak", it seems to carry
a horror that is in orders of magnitude more
intense than "most ominous". And what
integrity that bright-eyed handsome man had that
he worried more the death of his mind than the
body; we learnt that all across Punjab as we
gathered in small numbers near libraries, in
class-rooms and elsewhere after his murder on the
day that also saw the hanging of another
visionary 57 years before. Pash died at the age
of 37 in 1988.
Overall, this is
a timely and long awaited work. Gill and the
Sahitya Akademi should be lauded for this.
Especially, for a book in hard cover and a nice
design, its price is very reasonable.
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Pash past, present
and Punjabi poetry
by
Akshaya Kumar
Pash by
Tejwant Singh Gill, Sahitya Akademi, New Delhi.
Pages 108. Rs 25.
AT a time when the Indian
literary space runs the risk of being
appropriated by the Rushdie-clan of Vikram Seth,
Amitav Ghosh, Arundhati Roy, etc., the
publication of a monograph on Pash, a Punjabi
poet of the seventies and eighties, by the
Sahitya Akademi under its project of "Makers
of Indian Literature", comes as a welcome
relief against this on-going cultural politics of
representation. It is recognition of the
contribution of regional poetry to the making of
India as a nation.
The monograph also undoes
another fallacy. In the name of Indian
literature, the translations of ancient Sanskrit
texts are fed to the international gazer as
specimens of the ancient Indian wisdom. Most of
the writers included in the series of
"Makers of Indian Literature" also
happen to be the writers of the ancient and
medieval Indian past. The very fact that a writer
as recent as Pash has featured in this Sahitya
Akademi project goes to vindicate that
contemporary Indian native writer is intensely
alive and alert.
Pashs
poetry has the potential of a counter-discourse
within the canonical Indian literature, as it
does neither harbour the false consciousness of
his brahmanical ancestors, nor does it tread the
safe and sophisticated quotidian line of his
contemporary Indian English poets. To Pash,
poetry is neither a speculation into the
fictional infinite, nor a playful flirtation with
reality. It "is no feast or play/Or river
flowing leisurely away". It is a discourse
of protest against the politics of the sublime
and subliminal both.
The cooption of
an overtly leftist poet like Pash into
institutionalised frame of the Sahitya Akademi is
rare and unprecedented. The repositories of pure
culture seem to have conceded the genius of Pash.
The monograph
combines elements of biography with the critical
estimate of the creative output of the writer
under study. The author of Pashs monograph,
Tejwant Singh Gill, lives up to this challenge
very diligently. In the first chapter entitled
"Pash: Life and Experience", Gill
accounts for Pashs revolutionary bent of
mind in terms of his "village
background", "peasant upbringing",
"commitment to human relationships",
"impeded schooling", "unimpeded
learning" and, finally, a "full-blooded
encounter with the world at large".
The ideological
underpinnings of Pashs protest are
explained in terms of how Trotskys views on
permanent revolution helped Pash in reconciling
his intellectual pessimism with wilful optimism.
Surprisingly, there is no reference to the
possible influence of the homespun marxism of Ram
Manohar Lohia, Jayaprakash Narayan, Kriplani,
etc. on the poetry and persona of Pash.
As a
commentator, Tejwant Singh Gill keeps his
intellectual mediations to the minimum level. The
poems quoted in the course of the argument speak
for themselves. Pash undergoes three distinct
paradigmatic shifts: (i) the
"elementary" phase "drawn from
Mao", (ii) the "innovative phase under
Trotsky" and finally (iii) the
"productive phase of cultural
immanence".
Such a model of
evolution, based purely on the subtle ideological
shifts in Pashs poetry, should have been
complemented by another model based on the
categories of aesthetics. After all, more than
simple ideology, it is the poetic transmutation
that catapults Pash to the stature of a legend in
the post-independent India.
The 13 poems
anthologised in the monograph do represent a
mature and accomplished Pash. But this entails
exclusion of his relatively less poetical first
collection "Loh Katha"
altogether. The poems quoted at length in the
chapter on "Loh Katha"
nevertheless make up for this imbalance. Some of
the other oft-quoted poems of the poet like
"Jitthe kavita khatm hondi hai",
"Censor hon wale khat da dukhant",
"Dooshit bhasa de khilaf", etc. could
have been anthologised, but since the author
quotes the substantial part of these poems in the
course of his argument, he chooses not to repeat
them.
Gills
critical frame to evaluate Pash is heavily tinged
with marxist jargon. The use of critical terms
like "structure of feeling",
"ideogemes", "subaltern",
"residual", "dominant",
"commitment", "alignment",
etc. reveals beyond doubt the authors
strong foregrounding in the idiom of cultural
materialists like Raymond Williams, Walter
Benjamin or Gramsci.
The monographer,
therefore, is more an involved sympathiser than a
neutral empathiser. Such a critical stance does
help in understanding the sublte paradigmatic
shifts that the poetry of Pash undergoes, but it
also backfires as it tends to gloss over or
simply essentialise the possible discontinuities
and fissures in the discourse under study.
Gills
critical frame is so exclusively marxist that it
even fails to place Pash in the post-colonial
perspective of Franz Fanon, the Algerian
revolutionary, who advocated the use of poetry as
a weapon to disarm and expose the politics of
comprador intelligentsia in the Third World.
Fanon divides the literature of colonised nations
into three periods: an assimilationist phase, a
period of pre-combat literature and finally a
revolutionary literature. Pashs
revolutionary poetry is the most apt illustration
of Fanonian paradigm of post-colonial protest.
In his
introduction to his "Saade Samian
Vich", Pash attributes his poetry to the
living literary tradition of poetry in India.
Surprising it might seem, but Pash begins from
Kalidass Meghdoot. The poet is fascinated
by Kalidass technique of ode whereby a
wandering cloud is invoked to convey the
sentiment of love and romance to the dejected
lover. From Guru Gobind Singhs "Mitr
payare noon" to a contemporary Amitozs
"Lahore de naam khat", the ode has been
an integral part of Punjabi poetry.
In the same
introduction, Pash throws another surprise as he
acknowledges the influence of a contemporary
woman Indian English poet Kamala Das on his
poetic output. Not only these references reveal
Pashs responsiveness to Indian literature
as a whole, more importantly, they reveal the
inclusive range of protest in his poetry.
Pash is not
oblivious of gender discrimination. But
Gills monograph is silent on the role of
the tradition of poetry in India on the cultural
make-up of Pash. Of course, he does mention the
seminal influence of Pablo Neruda and Brecht on
Pashs radical outlook, but the indebtedness
of Pash to Indian writers has been totally
ignored.
Had Gill placed
Pash in the larger Indian tradition of
literature, it could have helped his own
enterprise of projecting Pash as a maker of
Indian literature. Tejwant Singh Gill does
situate Pashs death-defying radicalism in
the spirit of martyrdom built into the discourse
of Sikhism. The influence of Bhagat Singhs
revolutionary anti-imperialism on the young mind
of Pash has also been well spelt out. But
Pashs position within the rubric of
contemporary Punjabi poetry has been left
undefined. Pashs poetry emerges almost as
an alternative discourse vis-a-vis the romantic
poetry of Shiv Kumar Batalavi, the realistic
poetry of Mohan Singh, the experimental poetry of
Harbhajan Singh, and the quasi-mystical poetry of
Hasrat, etc.
The monograph on
Pash would definitely generate a cross-cultural
dialogue within India and abroad. Gill really
redeems the position of an Indian teacher in
English by way of channelising his knowledge of
English in bringing forth the writings in his own
mother tongue to a larger national and
international perspective.
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Shobha mom gets sentimental
and sensitive
by
Cookie Maini
Speed Post by
Shobha De. Penguin Books, New Delhi. Pages 284.
Rs 250.
TODAY'S kids are growing
up in a gizmo-populated world, where practically
every action and interaction is electronically
monitored video games, satellite
television and Internet surfing which
suppresses their emotional spontaneity. Shobha De
has focused on a fading sentimental mode of
communication, letters which are getting to be
anachronistic today.
As letters
evolved in their heyday, thoughts just poured out
on paper, sharable moments were shared, bonds
were bonded. The process was cathartic and those
bits of paper helped you recapture the emotions
frozen in time. We have lost that world as we
wade in to e-mails, cable wires and long distance
telephones. Our children are becoming a deprived
species as their emotions are becoming dry in
this hi-tech environ.
It has taken the
mother in Shobha De to revive the practice and
focus on letters to her six children of various
ages about "living, loving, caring and
coping with the world". Forgive me for
sounding sexist but for men fatherhood is not
very vital but is slotted somewhere in his
persona, but a women is all motherhood. So a
best-selling woman author has brought to the fore
this unquestionably live and special human bond
through her letters.
What stuck me
instantly was the sparkling spontaneity of the
book. Right from the introduction, it spills out
from her pen and reading "Speed Post"
is for every mother reliving her own experience
with parenting. Moments or episodes in this
mother-children saga may seem trivial but they
are meaningful to the totality of life.
Shobha De has
perfected the art of recounting such episodes
simply yet packed with significance. "Yes,
its extravagant, but for me its
essential to stay in touch and any price is worth
that electric charge I get when, in a strange
city at an odd hour in an unfamiliar setting, the
shrill ring of a cellphone nestling in my handbag
galvanises me into action. I dive for the
instrument, pick it up eagerly and hear one of
you say, Mama... how are you?
"Believe
me, Id pay anything for the pure pleasure
of listening to those sweet, simple words
wherever I may be in the world. How often have I
excused myself from a meeting to take a call and
then carried on the conversation sotto voce
furtively, feeling a lot like the guy in the
happy birthday to you
commercials."
The most
poignant letters are those she has written to the
children from her first marriage, whom she had to
leave as she separated, her regrets as she
irretrievably lost out on beautiful moments in
their lives because of no fault of theirs.
"If I shut my eyes, I can see you in her
place. But I dont do that, I cant.
Its too painful. I can never make up for
the loss. Never. All I can do is console myself
that weve had other moments, other memories
over time, that are equally precious, equally
beautiful. But those? Those are irretrievably
lost. I can only mourn their loss quietly and
seek your forgiveness, my precious one."
She has been
ethical enough not to ignore the children she is
"stepmom" to, penning beautiful letters
to them, too. "For all the roles you will be
called upon to play in future, my prayers and
blessings are with you. I may not have given
birth to you, but fate has cast me in a small
role while raising you. I have watched with pride
as you came into your own as an individual. There
is still one responsibility left for me to
discharge that of a grandmother."
The book is a
contrast to Shobha Des earlier sleazy
writing. Like her autobiography, this comes
straight from the heart. Beneath all those layers
of being a slick, sophisticated media
personality, she seems to still identify herself
with her middle class upbringing and values. She
cherishes those and endeavours to impart them to
her children.
Inspite of her
fame authoring best-selling books, there are
perceptible undercurrents of nostalgia for the
days gone by as a middle class girl brought up in
a close-knit family. She lapses into bouts of
nostalgia and very often her associations radiate
warm vibes.
"If you
were to ask me to name one single, strong memory
of food I recall from my childhood, Id take
no time at all to say aamti. Mothers
aamti a humble dal, eaten on a
daily basis with rice or chappatis, nothing more
than a staple in any Maharashtrian home. Yet, I
can recall its special flavour so many years
later. And each time I do, I can actually taste
it. What was so special about her aamti, youll
ask. Ill tell you. Mothers aamti stood
for something very deep and moving for me. It
stood for her commitment to all of us. It
revealed her love and duty towards the
family."
From her books
Shobha De emerges as a rather split personality,
a woman writing rather harsh critiques on the
hypocrisies of high society and the humane,
compassionate emotional being who revels in her
family ties of the past her father, mother
and sisters and her children to whom she pours
out her heart and subtly imparts human values
like her attachment to her dying driver. "A
week later Vinayak was no more. I heaved a sigh
of relief. Vinayak had been set free from pain
and sorrow. He had died a dignified death in his
house in his own bed, with his sister and a
friend by his side. My only regret was that I
hadnt been able to fulfil his last wish. No
flight to Ahmedabad for poor Vinayak. So long,
dear, faithful, good soul. May you wander to
different worlds, close to the stars than
youd ever have been in a (Boeing)
737."
Inspite of
Des dare all, bare all writing of the past,
another facet of her personality is her adherence
to and conviction in festivals and traditional
ceremonies. "Ilove the idea of continuity,
and festivals provide it. Im certain that
if we dont break what weve set in
motion, all of you will try and maintain that
vital link in your future lives too. There is no
religious significance in any of this and
thats the real beauty. We follow it as a
beautiful ritual invested with a lot of
sentiment.
"Today, my
brother is close to sixty. And yet, when we meet
for the annual aarti during bhau-bij, we
forget our respective ages, even our married
selves. We become just brother and sister, as we
once were, part of the same small unit, tied
together by the oldest bond in the world
blood. As I prepare the thali for the aarti,
my own mood changes. A certain solemnity gets
into me. I light the diyas, place a whole supari
on a fresh betel leaf, make sure there is kumkum
powder and a few grains of rice in a tiny
silver container, keep some mithai handy,
and approach Ashok mama".
At the end of
the book, I would like to ask Shobha De which is
her true self the one churning out all
those satirical novels or the sensitive one
spilling over into these true life roles. I would
reckon it is the latter. Anyway, whatever be her
true self, she should continue writing stuff on
similar lines to bring forth an emotional
renaissance in the endangered species the
present-day kids.
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